Article3 Signs a Man is a Player
Have you ever wondered if the guy you just met or are dating is a player? If so, you'll definitely want to read what Christian Carter author of “Catch Him & Keep Him” had to say.
Here are signs a man is a player:
-Nightlife: Men who spend more time out at bars and clubs are much more likely to be the player type. So find out how often a man is out at bars or clubs. If it's more than the occasional 1 or maybe 2 weekend nights, he's likely meeting lots of women and in "play" mode.
-His circle of friends: Men generally spend time and are closest with men who are thinking and acting like them at present. If a man's friends are all married and in serious relationships, odds are he's much more likely to be open to or thinking about a committed relationship. If a man is surrounded by other men who are out all the time, or who don't or haven't had girlfriends in some time, then it's likely he's out playing the field for fun.
-Relationships With Women: The best way to find out about a man is to get to know a close female friend of his (if he has any). If a man doesn't have any close female friends of substance, then that can be a sign of either immaturity, or that he's out playing the field so much that he doesn't regularly interact with women in a "normal" way.
-Comes on too strong: There's no rush if you and a man really like each other. It NEVER hurts to take your time if you think there might be something special between you and a man. And, strangely enough, men universally admit that women who they have to "court" for longer until getting close to are the women that men end up settling down with. So... if a man is impatient with you, and he's not willing to spend the time going on 2, 3 or 4 dates where you spend quality time together without jumping into bed, then he's probably not truly interested in you, or just looking for a casual "fling."
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I'm always attracted to players and I don't know but reading this has shown me it's the type of guy I always fall for. Note to self: change my pattern
I always fall for players too. I think it is because they know how to get a girl very well. So i fall for it..
Something else I noticed when I fell for a player. They'll text you about how nice your legs or bum are, but given chance to speak to you they act like they dont know you.
someone does this to me! he's just generally confusing... sometimes he won't even talk to me on msn. other times he flirts like mad... then other times he acts 'normal'. player? or not? :S
Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months and I havent met any of his friends but maybe one and he didnt even introduce us. His little sister did. I met his family and everything. How can I tell if he is a player or not?
I have definitely fallen for it too!
I Use To Fall For Them All The Time Until One Of Them Decided To Raise There Hand At me...Players Generally Do NOT Have Any Respect For Women Or For Them Selves For That Matter....Oh And If U Wanna Meet His Friends...Tell Him If He Says No That Should Make U Suspicious As To Why
I'm always atracted to these kinda guys... i have a really strong personality so sometimes its a challenge for me to get guys like this but after i'm always dissapointed... I think i need to let them off for some time :P
who hasn't players all know how to get a girl and just drop her liking nothing
i have been with my boyfriend nearly 5 years.we`ve had our up`s an down but have always waded through.we have 1 child an don`t live together.if we go out it`s cinema meal bowlin or his dads pub.ONLY.if he go`s out it`s town abroad etc.i recently found a picture of him when he SNEAKED off to magaluf with his friends and he was wearin a t-shirt that said 'MR ONE NIGHT STAND'. the other night i had suprised him had my hair cut and looked totally different.i saw him smack a girls bum an walk after her.after that i tapped into his e-mails only to discover he had booked yet another 'lads week' for the 6th time now to benidorm.he say`s i`m paranoid and it`s all in my head........`AM I....????????????
Hell NO! You're not paranoid in the least. if you're boyfriend and father of your child can go out for a night on the town with his friends but not with you then there is a problem. and if he's sneaking off places he either knows he shouldn't be doing it or doesn't respect you enough to actually tell you or if you asked him not to go he doesn't respect you enough to...well NOT GO. and if my bf were smacking other girls on the bum then he might want to pray to God that i'm in a forgiving mood or i might break his nose, and then dump him. I know that's not the easiest option for you but you shouldn't take that whole "you're just paranoid" crap. tell him how you feel about the situation and if he doesn't like how you feel then tell him you're feelings won't change and maybe he should think about what he's doing and how he wants to raise your son/daughter.
And hell if he's cheating on you on his "lads week"s which has probably crossed your mind already, then call him out on it, tell him that you don't want your child raised in that enviroment, thinking that it's ok for "daddy" to go out all the time and be away for "lads weeks" all the time.
But no you're not paranoid and you shouldn't take that crap sitting down. But in the end, what ever your decision you need to do what's right for you and your son/daughter even if that means taking a break from your relationship until he gets his act together.
my guy used to be a player but stopped about a year before he met me. he's the nicest guy ive ever met
players can change, they just need a reality check to make them change n mine told me all about his
i always fall for the players...maybe it's because they compliment me a lot, or because i like the attention. sometimes it's in a text, most of the time face to face, but it's just a game to them. because this player, who i thought liked me, all of a sudden decided to get a girlfriend who i swear is a nicer, more cowardly version of me. and he still has this girlfriend, even though he always talks about having sex with me. ew.
I treat the players a little differently. (at least in the past)now,I just make friends/acquaintances with them, and that is about it. I have seen the way they treat women, and it is horrible, they don't have a clue how to make a relationship work, and many ladies on here are right, they just don't care. Most of them suffer from a great case of low self worth, because of their parents or their friends, so now they feel that their significant other has to reflect what their peers would consider "worthy". from what I have seen, some players desire a relationship but they just don't have a clue on how to make it stick, because they have had so many one night stands, it just becomes habit for them. Bottom line though, they will tell you all kinds of sweet things to get you in bed, and then be rude to you to get you to go away.
bleh..they aren't worth it.
what if a guy has lots of female friends?i mean 90% of his friends are girls.
I always fall for players/assholes. I know how they work, and reading this proves the point that I need to change the type of guy I fall for...but the thing is I have no idea how. They always say you choose your dads personality (weird I know...but my dad is a player..ick.).
i think i know the player tipe quite well most of my guy friens are huge players and i still fall for thta type lol i think even though it sounds awful they know how to deal with us girls and you end up with one again...
I tend to fall for players as well. They're just so cool and confident and all that, and really sweet when you first meet them... Anyway, a good warning sign is if he tells you that you're hot. A guy who's really into you will tell you that you're beautiful.
wow, im really glad i dont fall for the players..
at least.. i haven't so far :/
women usually fall for players because they want you to fall for them. They compliment you, give attention to you, and their confident vibe causes you to believe they're all that. The 'coming on too strong' thing is right on. If they come on strongly to you, they're likely to be coming on strongly to a lot of women.
Mmmm, I had something of a small crush on a player, but he acted way differently than what the three signs were in this article. He would make plans with me, and then totally blow me off with no reason at all. And he would say I love you way too much to me, and I didn't know how to act since he had met me just recently. Also, on his Facebook status for relationships, he said he was in a relationship when he was flirting with me (at the time).
He says that he wants to be WITH me always..but some times he just doesnt at all talk to me..seems as if he is chatting with some other girl..or rather FLIRTING..
Sometimes he tells me that my eyes are beautiful..sometimes he gets irritated while talking to me..
Sometimes he is there for me 24 x 7..sometimes he doesnt msg me for 24 hours..
PLAYER OR NOT???