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Dildo. Roommates. Ugh

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So I bought a pretty pink vibrating dildo penis. I hid it under my towels on my shelf in the bathroom after I left my apartment for a weekend. Well of course, my roommate finds it and is totally creeped out and got mad in a way. Now come on... I go to a fashion school where I'm around gay guys all the time... a girl has to please herself somehow....! How in the world do I approach this?? 

LOL! awh poor girl! lol, tell her its not uncommon for girls to use these things, and if she likes you'll hide it better. theres not much you can do, but laugh about it with her!

I would be angry and ask her why she was going through my stuff. If she wasn't using your towels or looking through them she wouldn't have found it. tell her to keep her nose out of your stuff then she wont have to know.

lol tell her to get over it, its only a dildo.
u hid it so obviously u werent expecting someone to find it so ask her why she was looking through your stuff.
and why did she being it up? if she found it accidentally she didnt have to say anything.

that's hilarious. hide it in your room next time and tell her to get over it.

what is she?a nun?tell her to move on with this thing called life.confront her about going through your stuff.if you want to patch things up offer to share it with her...its probably what she was hoping for anyway.

A simillar thing happened to me! my friend found out that i had a dildo and looked grossed out as if there was something wrong with me! the girl was a virgin though and had a lot of sex dreams! there is not much you can do about it just appologize for making her feel unconfortable and explain to her that it is normal for women to take care of themselves, beats having a promiscous roomate! she's just jelous that you are in touch with your sexuallity

haha.. she has no reason to be mad, it is your apartment as it is hers, so you have just as much right to have a dildo as she does not to have one.

you can either approach this agressively, where you get on her for looking through your stuff, or you can take it lightly and laugh about
However, I think you should ask exactly why it bothers her.

lol She goes through your towels on your shelf and finds something that was none of her business and now she is upset? Wow, what a hypocrite she is!!!

Your room mate is being a prude. Its totally natural and normal to use one and I wouldnt say anything to her. Its none of her business, and if she is creeped out thats her issue...not yours.

I know how you feel because I have a prude for a roommate. I think the word masturbation itself would frighten her. The best thing to do is just laugh at their immaturity and move on. No use worrying about it.