ArticleWise Words About Love
One of my girlfriends sent this to me and as a big fan of the QotD's I feel like some of you ladies will love this as much as me.
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you hadn't or saying nothing and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the hardest to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do they might break your heart... but if you don't you might break theirs.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much... for fear that the other person does not care as much, or at all.
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle? We tell lies when we are afraid...afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie... the thing we fear grows stronger.
Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have, or could have had. No one waits forever...
What would you do…?
What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?
What would you do if you best friend died tomorrow and you never got the chance to tell them how you felt?
What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
When you love someone say it. Say it loud. Say it right away, or the moment just passes you by and you may never get the chance again.
People live, but people die.
~Anonymous
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I absolutely love this! It's so very true and I know from experience that it hurts more than the feelings of being rejected if you don't tell someone you love them and never have the chance to b/c that person passes away.
You can tell someone how you feel, but that doesn't mean they will feel the same way. I told someone how I felt about them and the feelings weren't mutual. At least I said what I wanted to say to this person. Now it is up to them what they do with it. I don't know if it feels worse now that I have spoken up or if it would've felt worse if I didn't. What's done is done and now I am moving on.
I like that, thank you. I am gon through the same situation now, and its so damn hard!
so true show your really feeling and dont be afraid,,,,,,,,,
Put your trust in someone, but don't be the fool.
Trust your instincts as they are often right.
Believe in the best, its better than the worse.
And remember those who are there for you x
And sometimes, think before you act. A good friend is worth more than diamonds
I actually didnt liek this one very much....
But what if you feel that way about a close friend, and you want to have the friendship stay the way that it is? I like one of my close friends, but I don't want to ruin our friendhip...
Tell them. If their a close friend it can go one of two ways: it'll work out and you'll be together or; you'll go back to being friends.
Personally, my best friend and I have had the conversation a few times and I can honestly say that, yeah, it was a little awkward for like 2 days...but then you move on and realize that your friendship is still whats important since thats what makes the relationship anyways. We're both still best friends and I don't regret telling him how I felt either time.
I'm still very much in love with him (and he probably knows it, too), but maybe one day he'll see that no other girl can have the kind of relationship we have and that its meant to be. Maybe that won't be tomorrow, but, since we're good friends, it doesn't matter how many years it takes.
I really hope you tell this person, because they do deserve to know. If they really care about you, they'll be able to set that aside and remain close friends even if they don't necessarily feel the same.
Good luck.
The best friend dying tomorrow thing made me cry a little. And I definitely just texted her to tell her that I love her.
the best friend diein 2morrow was the part that hit me the most my best friend is like a sister 2 my and if she died then i would die 2. she's my world my supporter my everything. (not in a gay way eithter)
i think i have said it more too people without them saying it back to me cuz of fear...this is really good..and its true u should say it often cuz you never know when somebody is going to die..plus when u say it ...it makes u feel good inside...
That is so tru and i always say what i want to someone. if i want a guy i will tell him i like him or ask him out, rejection or not i dont care, cos at the end of the day you got your answer and there is no need to question the "what if".. forget fear, if you want it, go for it.
i'm actually not too keen on this one :/
I totally agree - take the plunge and be brave - it's better to live a little and love a little then have nothing apart from regrets. If you don't allow yourself to let go - you'll always live with little risk and therefore potentially little love.
xx