GirlsGuideTo | 9 Sexy Secrets Men Want You to Know

Have you ever wondered what exactly your guy wants while doing the deed? Of course you have! But actually voicing your questions takes a lot of confidence. Here’s what guys would tell you they really want behind closed doors.

Sexy Secret #1: Love Your Body
Men love it when we love our bodies. When you’re insecure you’re telling your guy that you’re not comfortable being real with him. In the heat of the moment, the last thing a guy is likely to notice is your body flaws—so ignore them. Men do!

Sexy Secret #2: He Wants to Impress
Yeah, he wants to look good for you too. Despite the fact that it seems like all he does is shower, pull on clothes, and go he really does care. You know how you feel when he compliments you? He feels the same. A simple “That shirt looks nice on you” goes a long way.

Sexy Secret #3: Size Really Does Matter
I know it sounds so adolescent, but guys really do worry that they’re not going to measure up. Stroke his ego while you’re, uh, stroking something else. It doesn’t matter whether or not he’s really “the biggest you’ve ever seen.”

Sexy Secret #4: Say Cheese!
Men love it when you text an unexpected pic—even if you’re fully clothed. Don’t be afraid to send a picture out of the blue. Even if your hair doesn’t look phenomenal. You’ll instantly be on his mind (especially if you pair a nice picture with a naughty message).

Sexy Secret #5: He Wants You to Want Him
When your boyfriend or husband hints at sex, and you don’t give him at least some indication that you want it and like it too, you crush him. Guys want to know that they turn you on. So if you’re not in the mood, make it clear that it’s not personal, it really is a headache.

Sexy Secret #6: Rough It Up
Don’t be afraid to get a little grabby. If the mood strikes, run your fingers through his hair and give it a little pull. I’m not saying you need to full on dominatrix on him, but don’t be shy. He can take it.

Sexy Secret #7: The Backdoor
Most guys want to try anal, and if he hasn’t said anything, it’s either because he thinks you’ll completely shoot him down or he hasn’t done it before. If you are interested, bring it up. He’ll thank you.

Sexy Secret #8: They Like Comfy Too
Sure, your drawer full of racy little underthings will definitely get him going, but even your most comfy cotton panties are enough to catch his attention. A t-shirt and some simple underwear is just as sexy. Bonus points if it’s his t-shirt…

Sexy Secret #9: The Key is Confidence
What men want most is not some crazy new sex position or porn star antics (though they probably wouldn’t mind). No. They want confidence. There’s no point in being timid or shy in bed: You’re both there to have fun! Be loud, have fun and relax, and if you want to try something, speak up.

Check out this episode of GirlsGuideTo...TV below and be sure to subscribe to our YouTube channel so you don't miss any of our upcoming shows!