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Can't Hit That 'Big O' and I Don't Know What To Do

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Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 11:26 AM

I have a boyfriend, that I've lost my virginity to. He's lately been trying to really get me off. But I just can't. I've tried to by myself to get the "Big O" but I just can't seem to. I've faked it the last times he's really been trying to. I just don't know why I can't. Does anyone have any advice that can help me get to the "Big O"? I know that lying isn't going to be helping much at all, and when he finds out he'll be really hurt but I don't want to tell him that he can't make me orgasm. Does anyone know what to do? :S 

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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 28, 2010 at 3:59 PM
I haven had sex with my guy yet cause im not ready but hes already gotten me off with foreplay it really does depend on you... if your not comfortable or relaxed it wont happen... try letting him go down and using his hands as well the different forms of stimulation hopefully will do the trick :) good luck!
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Its not easy but practice is fun. Missionary just doesnt do it you need him to enter you from behind (and no I am not talking about anal)this way he is more likely to find your g spot its just sexual geography you need to help him but firstly you need to find out yourself which means masturbation - dont be coy more of us than you think do it. Buy a Rabbit (dont forget the batteries) take an evening alone take the phone off the hook and let it flow I promise you will be more than happy with the results. Next time you have sex you will feel so much more confident and you will grow to love your Rabbit too I do!
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  • Posted by Sharon Tang on February 28, 2010 at 4:22 PM
Many women need direct stimulation like oral sex to orgasm... few can orgasm from only intercourse.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 27, 2010 at 4:42 PM
Okay, get a vibrating cock ring for him to wear. Have a lot of oral stimulation beforehand. When you have sex, get on top in cowgirl then lean over and me chest to chest with him. It will stimulate your clitoris more. Try to keep your mind on dirty thoughts as well, or have him say dirty things to you.
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  • Posted by Faye Avery on February 22, 2010 at 1:07 PM
Dont think about having an orgasm, just be in the moment. The worst thing you can do is think about it, as you are concentrating to hard and it has to come naturally.
I used to never be able to reach orgasm because I was always intent on having one.
Just have fun with one another and let the orgasms flow =)
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 20, 2010 at 6:20 PM
Well, have you tried being on top? Gravity is your friend.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 19, 2010 at 4:06 PM
We've tried, everything, foreplay, so many different positions. Nothing is seeming to work, and i don't want to tell him because that would make me feel horrible. But i really don't know what to do anymore, its so frustrating, and the fact that i feel like i don't want to bring it up to him, to get more help from him bothers me. I've tried visualizing, nothing seems to work.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 19, 2010 at 10:20 AM
You know what too? There are many girls who just cant orgasm until their mid twenties. I don't know why it's such a little known fact, but your body is still growing and sometimes you just need time on your side! Don't give up!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 18, 2010 at 1:57 PM
RELAX! the one thing you can do is relax, and stimulate your clitoris a little and you will see, it will come to you (:
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 17, 2010 at 1:26 AM
try ky him and her or just that new her one lol or myself i have xscream its a warming tingling cream its helps and feels amazing
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