How do I learn how to open up again?
Posted by Anonymous on September 14, 2009 at 6:18 PM
Hello ladies...So after a couple rocky relationships/break ups and untrustworthy guys, I have found it difficult to open up or even trust guys now. I am not in a relationship now, but there are a few guys that have caught my attention that I like to talk to and would like to get to know. Naturally, I'm pretty shy at first until I get to know a guy, but I don't want to come across as being a boring person, because I'm far from that :P haha. After having my heart broken more than once I feel I've almost forgotten how to achieve that initial spark that is so crucial in a relationship. I don't know where to start when it comes to opening up to a guy and getting to know each other, or even what to begin to talk about...I feel as if i've reached a huge obstacle that I am unable to overcome.
I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to break through this challenge? Thanks so much :)