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Pregnant and Dealing with Mean People
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Posted by Anonymous on March 10, 2010 at 1:25 PM
Im 19 years old and so is my boyfriend and we've been dating for the past 4 years since 11/18/06. We've also been living together for the past 9 months in a beautiful apartment. He's such an amazing boyfriend to me and I'm madly In love with him. On Wed Jan 13, 2010, My boyfriend and I got the Best News of our lives, I'm Pregnant!!! I've never been so happy and excited In my life. I'm about 9 weeks pregnant and my due date Is September 22, 2010. Im so happy and excited to bring a beautiful baby Into my life and so is my boyfriend. My family and his family are very supportive and excited about us having a baby and so are my friends.
There's just one problem, there are some people who won't leave me alone about me being pregnant. They have been saying such mean things about me, my boyfriend and the baby. This one girl just won't stop texting me, she hasn't texted me in awhile, but I'm thinking that the next time she does, I'm going to have to change my cell number. People can just be so mean and cruel these days, it's horrible. I personally think pregnancy is a beautiful thing. What should I do?
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Second I think that whoever's being mean to you because you're pregnant tell them that this is my life and I am happy that I am having a baby me personally I think that whoever's making fun of you needs to really get a life.
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In my opinion I think that you should either block their numbers through the phone company or you should change your number. Some people don't get it... they need to grow up. It's ultimately up to you. Ignore them or block them. If you ignore them and don't respond they will get bored and move onto the next person to attack.
The other option is save the messages and turn the people in for harassment. Get a restraining order. This is a serious offense and they need to learn they can't do this and get away with it. But if you go this route then you HAVE to make sure not to contact them.
Have you told them to leave you alone? If you have then you can take it to the police.
Besides, this is a happy time and you don't need stress.
Stay strong girly! Focus on your new family (*:
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:D
its your life, you and your guy are happy, so let the crapsters crap.
and why you would change your number, are you afraid of her?
if it keeps on like this, talk to your boy friend and tell him to confront that bitch lol hehe
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Congrats on the baby!! Dont worry about the freak whose texting you, kay? :) Its YOUR baby, its YOUR. YOU and YOUR family are all super excited! Block that girls number and focus on yourself, your baby, and your bf. Maybe you should be thinking about a wedding. It doesnt have to be anything fancy if you dont want it to be. :)
Good luck hun!
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Cliche... But Madonna says it best:
"He says that he's going to marry me
We can raise a little family
Maybe we'll be all right
It's a sacrifice
But my friends keep telling me to give it up
Saying I'm too young, I ought to live it up
What I need right now is some good advice, please"
Screw the people who won't let you do what you want. Tell them to screw off. It's done, over with and your happy! My girl friend is due in two months and she is 19. Her and her 20 year old Hubby are stoked! I am for them too. Bringing a baby into that is much better than a lot of older people who can't just be happy and try their best!
Good luck, sweetie! I'm so happy for you!