Scared My Mom May Be Suicidal
Posted by Anonymous on March 23, 2010 at 2:10 AM
I really need some advice ASAP!!! My mum and dad just got divorced but we still live in the same house because of the financial situation. My father had an affair with this woman for 4 years and now she is pregnant and due in MAY!! But this isn't my father's only affair. We just found out that he hasn't been faithful for all 22 years of marriage!
This news very shocked my mummy and she feels unloved and down. To be honest my father never was too caring. For instance, he NEVER got her any presents for birthday's, Valentines Day or any other celebrations. He hasn't gave her any compliments or made her feel wanted for past 9 years (she didn't have sex for 9 years)! This is hard to believe but it is true! She is very stressed and sometimes she has bad pain in her chest and finds it hard to breath. We went to the doctor's but they haven't found anything. Because of her health she only works few days a week and every time she comes home she feels even worse. I do my best to keep her happy. I talk to her all the time and trying to make her feel good about herself. But I feel like this is not helping and she will hurt herself.
She admitted herself that she wants to die and the only thing that keeps her alive is me and my 9 years old brother. The other day she was in hysterics because of her breasts. After my brother's birth she wanted to get boob job but just didn't have a chance to save up because my father always lied to her about his finances (as he was spending it on his girlfriends and taking them on romantic holidays) so all her money went on bills and stuff.
Now I just don't know what to do! I am so scared to leave her on her own. I know that we need to move out far away from my father but at the moment it's financially impossible. She always cries, avoids mirrors and talks about dying. If anyone have any advice please help because she is all we have got!!!! :( :( :(