Sex... Is It All That's Keeping You Together?
Posted by Anonymous on September 10, 2009 at 8:02 AM
Sex has always been a big part in everyones life. At the age of six we wonder how babies were made. At twelve, we hear the words "penis" and "vagina" said aloud in class and cringe at those awkward words. At fifteen, most of us have our first kiss and is somewhat horrifyingly curious about whats next. At seventeen, we put the words "penis" and vagina together and have an outcome of "sexual intercourse". At nineteen, we're amazingly in love with the one we've lost it to and refuse to let go
No one can deny it. Sex is amazing. All those cringeworthy and blushing secrets it holds and how much it connects you with your partner. But when it starts to rule your life; is it worth it? Just because at that moment in time he makes you feel so amazing; then to treat you like shit when you two are just "hanging out" is becoming more and more common in our society and we should take a stronger stand. Us girls are so ruled by emotions and maybe we need to take a step back and make them deserve us.
Sex should be treated as a very special thing between two people. Not just because you want it really badly and you think that it'll keep your boyfriend to you. Trust me; it doesn't. Using sex as an excuse as to why you are still with him will just kill you even more if you keep it up. Instead; as awkward as it is TALK.
Communication is always one of the biggest issues in life. If we don't communicate our thoughts then how do we ever get the best for ourselves? Make sure that you two are both on equal grounding, not him infantilizing you and you on your knees. Just say everything thats on your mind and he will respect you so much more for being a strong and independent woman that you know you are!
Each and everyone of us is amazing and beautiful, we may all be bitchy, have mood swings and contradictive in our lives but we're all good people at the end of the day and we all deserve the best.