My boyfriend wants me to be more dominant during sex and I don't know how. He says it's not that hard but for me it is. I'm a very self conscious person and I'm just worried that I won't know what to do or how he'll respond. Any advice?

Okay so I was watching the movie with Anna Farris called "What's your number?" and it got me thinking about "The Number" and just generally why people don't tell each other about their number. So, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and I've only ever been with him. But he won't tell me whether or not I really am his first.

Is it possible to have too much lubrication for sex? I am not talking about lube from a bottle I mean natural lubrication. When I have sex with my boyfriend, he sometimes falls out because of all the extra lube. What can I do?

My boyfriend masturbates with panties that belong to another girl, not an ex or anything, just a girl whose belongings were accessible to him at one time, so he helped himself. They weren't even clean when he took them and as far as I can tell he hasn't washed them since he got them.

All my life I have had the strength to say no to sex...But now that I have found someone who has been sexually active with his last three partners- its been hard for him to understand the word "No." Basically I put my hoochie with a do not enter sign. He respects me, and really cares about me- He just doesn't know how to back off and understand how to take things slow again.

Ok. So. I'm from a family where mom gave me the complete and utter basics about sex and, no details, that was it. And that's all I wanted to know. I'm a very shy person and I don't ask questions about sexual things. But as I get older I'm getting more curious and I was wondering if someone could give me a website or some form of informational material to go to. Help?

Why has my libido decreased? I am in a steady relationship with a boyfriend I love very much and could spend the rest of my life with, yet I have gone from having sex 5 times a week or more to barely ever wanting it at all. I force myself to have sex at least once a week otherwise he gets wound up and annoyed.

I don't know what to do. I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and found that he has a small penis. I don't care, it's just I can't feel it. So the size is a problem because of that. I feel so inadequate because I can't feel it and that makes me feel horrible. I enjoy the intimacy of sex with him, I just can't orgasm during penetration with him because I can't feel it.

Okay, I have been with my guy for about 4 years now and the sex is really amazing but I would like to try some different positions, just to add to our experience. :) But we are the same height he might be an inch taller than me on a good day. lol I am not getting bored I just want to change things up to see how he reacts... Any suggestions?