Is love worth the risk? Even when it doesn't seem like it could work? Here's the situation: I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months, and we're both starting to get really into each other. I wouldn't say we're "in love" but I can definitely see it happening soon. The problem is that we're in two very different places in our lives. He's 11 years older than me with a daughter and a career.

I've been with this guy, and for the most part I'm always the one calling him to talk or make plans. I thoroughly believe that if a guy is really interested, then he'll try to seek me out. So occasionally, I won't call him, and it'll take him a week to call me. Is this typical guy behavior, or is he just not that interested?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I've got a question for the ladies out there on what would you do in this situation. I was with my now ex for a year and when we were together it was mainly physical, he was definitely the 'treat them mean keep them keen' type. A lot happened in that year but through the whole of it he never told me he loved me. Enough was enough when he cheated so we broke up.

So ladies, does the past of your boyfriend matter to you, or do you just turn a blind eye to it? Because I am in a bit of a situation; my boyfriend has a terrible past (he grew up in South Africa), and his past is just ... reeally horrible. But he's changed completely and he's a completely different man.

So how would you ladies feel if your boyfriend is living with this ex just because they have a contract together. He doesn't feel the same for her anymore but she sure does! We have been dating for 8 months they are going to live together for 4 more months but he said if I don't like it he can break the contract what do you think? The contract was for 2 years and it is $2,000 to break it.

My fiance is completely upset because I was honest in saying I will always love my ex-boyfriends. They held a special place in my life at one point, but it doesn't mean I am still "In love," with them or in contact with them. In each case, (me and my ex's) parties have moved on and will remain friends.

I have an awesome guy but I'm ruining my relationship with my jealousy. How do girls deal with their serious boyfriend watching porn? (The fact that it's lesbian porn bothers me even more). How do you deal with your man getting turned on by other girls because of it? He tells me I'm the only girl that gets bothered by it and that I shouldn't be jealous.

I have known my soon-to-be ex-boyfriend for almost two years. We met our freshmen year of college, and have grown to be really close. Needless to say, we ended up having feelings for one another, and the spring semester of our freshmen year, we dated....and, he broke up with me. After breaking up with me (and giving me no reason why), a month later, he tells me that he is bisexual.

I cannot stand my boyfriend's best friend. He is rude, immature and disrespectful. I cannot understand why my boyfriend is even friends with him when he does not know how to treat people respectively. I have explained to my boyfriend that I do not like how his friend acts sometimes, but he says he cannot do anything about it. What do I do?