How do you approach roommates who are slobs and never clean? I have 3 roommates, and I'm not a neat freak, but I DO think the common areas (kitchen, living room, dining room) should at least be kept tidy. However, I seem to be the only one who feels this way, and don't know how to talk to the other girls about it, since I'm the new one in the house.

I have a post Christmas party on Saturday night and I volunteered to bring dessert. What is a good dessert that I can make that is possibly festive but definitely delicious?

Lately I've had this itch to learn how to cook beyond my standard fare of grilled cheese, pasta, and eggs. What are some cooking basics I should know and perhaps any recipes I should try?

I decided to have a birthday dinner at my place rather than go out and make everyone spend lots of money. Anyone have any good recipes or suggestions I should consider-- there's going to be about 25 people? It's BYOB so I'm not concerned with drinks but I want to make sure there is good stuff to eat.

More wedding help needed! I'm putting together a list of songs for my best friend to play at her wedding during the reception, etc. She's not having any dancing, but it will also be very casual and relaxed. I'm looking for great songs to play that are wedding themed - can anyone help? No nasty hip-hop songs... there will be elderly and little children present. Thanks so much!