Is sex a tool? So, I've been seeing this guy for a while, and seemingly out of no where he becomes terrible with communication (doesn't call me back, text etc.) I've confronted him about it and we've come to realize we have a few issues to work out.

Is love worth the risk? Even when it doesn't seem like it could work? Here's the situation: I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months, and we're both starting to get really into each other. I wouldn't say we're "in love" but I can definitely see it happening soon. The problem is that we're in two very different places in our lives. He's 11 years older than me with a daughter and a career.

What is the best way to deal with a partner you have just caught cheating?

I am 32, single for about 3 years and am completely paralyzed when it comes to taking the initative when asking a guy out. I am more positive everyday that I have an unapproachable vibe about me and know that I have got to start doing the asking or I am gonna wait forever! I am really interested in one guy in particular and would really like to ask him out but am so scared.

I've been with this guy, and for the most part I'm always the one calling him to talk or make plans. I thoroughly believe that if a guy is really interested, then he'll try to seek me out. So occasionally, I won't call him, and it'll take him a week to call me. Is this typical guy behavior, or is he just not that interested?

So I met this guy two years ago through the internet, and at first it was nothing more than someone who was easy to talk to. Well after about a year, I realized there were some feelings that had developed and he felt the same. I recently met him when he flew out to see me (I'm in Georgia), then a couple of months later I flew out to see him (he's in California).

Do you believe in love at first sight?

My "ex" got a new phone. On his Facebook it said "got a new phone, message me your #." We are no longer Facebook friends but I stalk him... often sadly. Should I add him as a friend again, pretend like I'm now just seeing the status and send him my number. Or should I just send it? Which is really creepy, HE deleted ME on Facebook which is why we are no longer friends and for the past 5 months.

Does age really matter or is it just a number? I met a guy who I thought was very good looking, a friend of ours introduced us to each other and I thought "oh he must be around 20 or older" but when we started talking he told me he was 18 and I was in total shock! He had the same reaction when I told him I was 21 because he thought I was his age.

How long should you make a guy wait before sleeping with him? I don't think it matters, but everyone else tells me otherwise... Are there any rules anymore?