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My boyfriend has a foot fetish- he can't get off from regular sex it seems the only way he can get off is by jacking off and touching my feet.and has a lot of issues staying hard to even have sex. We've tried different position and using condoms and not using condoms.... Does anybody have any advice for me?? I love to have sex and I really love him and would love to make this work with him.



Have you tried things that are more foreplay related rather than just actual sex? Perhaps amping up foreplay will get him more turned on so that he will remain hard for sex. This is definitely a tough situation to be in though so I'm sorry girly! He seems like a great guy if you guys can work this out

okay, i also have a boyfriend with a foot fetish :P

and really he does alot of foot touching, and just basically start off with a foot job, let your feet touch him, alot, stick them in his face, my boyfriend goes crazy for that, just litttle things like that! and honestly, find a quirky fetish of your own, and he'll follow it because you're working with his fetish

Same here, I have a boyfriend that LOVES my feet! haha

But what we usually do is we lie in the missionary position, tuck my legs up closer to my body, then he can reach down and play with my feet as we're having sex. The same thing can apply to doggie, he can bend down and play with them! OR if you like Anon's idea above me, try lying on your back (and this is abit embarassing for me) but stick your feet in the air as he is having sex with you, then he can touch them and you could rub up and down your chest with them!

Basically just try and do small things like that so while your getting what you want he is also getting what he wants!

Fully agree with the above 2!! my partner as well, but he has a few fetishes, look at some of the websites out there for foot fetishes and fetishes in general, there are plenty of them to do with Foot fetishes, have a look together in bed (if you have a laptop) ask him what he likes, explore it with him!! Be a bit dominant with him, have a shower, get out, put some nice stockings on (footless tights perhaps) tell him to do things to your feet, embrace the fetish and like above find one of your own.

I would deff suggest the websites, that will help with heaps of things. See if he is into anything else, possibly more then just the feet thing!! Get some toys that are to do with feet check out stockroom.com or shemakestherules.com

Things will get there and you will find something that keeps him hard!! Good luck and enjoy

~Mistress dvs~

My boyfriend doesn't have a foot fetish, but we do use a position that might make it easier for him to be in contact with your feet.
Kneel on the edge of the bed, with you legs hanging off a little, and bend the top half of your body down, so you're sort of lying across the bed with your rump in the air (it helps to have a pillow for your head). He'd be behind you, like doggie style. We came up with this because the height difference is too much for me to just bend over the bed. I imagine it'd allow your boyfriend to touch your feet a lot, as my boyfriend occasionally grabs my ankles in this position.