Why is it so easy for guys to break up a relationship? Do they just have some secret thing that keeps them from being hurt, we women don't know about?

Why is it so easy for guys to break up a relationship? Do they just have some secret thing that keeps them from being hurt, we women don't know about?

I don't think it is easier. It depends on the relationship plus guys seem to hide it better
I've seen guys be completely devastated by a break up and the girls be completely fine with it. It in the end depend on who ended it and why they ended it.
I completely agree my friend got dumped by phone whilst he was in scotland he was absolutely devastated i mean she gave him no reason whatsoever i just think some people can be deliberatly cruel.
I personally think that it's not just-like-that easy. I think the guy would have spent quite along time thinking about it. I think that he would've discussed this with his buddies. And, later on decide whether he wants a continuing relationship with his girlfriend/boyfriend.
And, after the break up he would probably still be thinking about the consequences to breaking up with that person.
Even if he seems fine and alright he probably isn't. He's probably thinking about you still. Maybe, he just thinks that what has been done was for the best.
But, this is just what I think it is.
Men, from the beginning, are taught by society to be "strong", "manly", and not show their emotions, or that would make them weak. Men do cry, and men can be just flat out devastated, but they can hide it. If you were used, i think that's another story.
I agree completely with Breanna. That and depending on how long the relationship had been going on, most men don't get attached as fast as girls do. Girls have a desire of wanting to feel protected even if they don't recognize it so when a guy comes into our lives we want to feel safe and secure. These cause us to get attached which yes, some guys get attached quickly as well, a lot don't. The ones that don't have to take a longer time in the relationship but once they do, they have a hard time with break ups as well, they don't like the show it.
Yes they do. It's called "Don't Allow Her To See Me Cry, I'll Look Weak". Guys are hurt hugely by break ups, (unless it was just a user) they just don't want to let girls see it. Society pressures them into seeming manly by not showing emotion in public. It's awful, although I'm glad society is a bit more accepting of it now.
They have friends that drink, and friends that know other girls to keep their minds off of the former girlfriend.
We have friends that cry with us, talk constantly about our ex's, and keep us up to date with what our ex is doing.
Actually, my boyfriend has revealed to me many things about how guy's minds work, and he told me that guys DO feel as much pain as girls when it comes to breakups; they just try to hide it to look 'manly' and strong. Which often ends up in them looking like emotionally atrophied dickheads. Guys work completely differently to us, remember.