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My best friend for like 10 years moved to another state in December and when he left I felt like someone ripped out a part of me. But now he is back and I have stronger feelings for him and so does he but he does not want anything serious. What should I do?



Well, I'd give it a shot, but give it plenty of time and see if things will progress naturally. These things take time anyways, so you might as well give it a shot. :) Good luck!

Depends, if you feel like that both ways then it's worth giving it a shot, but if it doesn't work out then you've just lost a really great friendship...good luck :)

If he was a good friend of yours before, i would NOT go out with him...i went out with my best guy friend and when we broke up it was really bad because then i lost one of my closest friends...I wouldn't if i were you but do what you think is right.

since he's your best friend right now, it has the potential of an amazing relationship if it works. n remember nothing comes wit out work. Try to make it work n maybe he'l get serious soon. But be prepared to lose your best friend if it doesn't work.

Take your time. Time can only tell. You both will know if it's right. SLOW!

if he doesn't want something serious, you should listen to that. Would you rather keep him as a friend or chance loosing him if something happened in the relationship?

Now if you both had a similar mind set, then yes, go for it. I did and we're now engaged, but we both wanted the relationship.

I would just let things move along naturally. He may just be working up the courage to ask you out. That's what happened with me and my current boyfriend. But either way, if you let things move along at their own pace, no one gets hurt or feels pressured into anything.

How many times do I have to say this? The best significant others were significant to you before you started going out. I was friends with my boyfriend for six or seven years before we started going out.

Don't push anything, but let it slip into a relationship. Don't expect anything major at first. Just go with the flow.