Question
My boyfriend didn't show up to a double date we were going to with another couple last night. This isn't the first time he's done that, in fact, it's the second time in a row with that same couple. He's never done it to me alone. The couple was really mad at him, because he didn't call to say he wasn't going to be there. I wasn't mad, even though I should be. Today he skipped almost all of his classes and avoided us all like the plague. I really hate when he does this, because he won't talk to us at all, even when it needs to happen! What should I do to stop this from happening?????
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ask why and if he reason isn't good enough, dump him and find a better guy. Theres no excuse for not at least calling you to let you know he wouldn't be coming.
probably he likes to go on dates alone with u !~
and also not fond of the other couple.
U should be happy coz he feels like its kinda "your" thing to go on daes, and not just something to simply have fun with a Bunch of people.
And he might be upset that you dint understand his feeling and arranged a double date for the 2nd time !
He seems like a bit of a jerk.
I wouldn't tolerate that.
Well you can't solve the problem if he isn't going to talk to you! If he refuses to talk about it then dump him. If something that's important to you isn't important enough for him to come halfway on, he's not worth it.
If he is willing to talk to you, and just you, obviously get to the root of the problem. Are you SURE he's avoiding you and not just unavailable? Are you sure that its not that particular couple and maybe just a bad time for him? There could be a very reasonable explanation for this. Try to find out what it is =) And when you are asking him, be sure to tell him you genuinely want to work it out so you two can both be happy!