Question
The first time my boyfriend and I had sex, he took the condom off with a friggin' KLEENEX and it made me feel so fucking dirty, like he was disgusted by me! Has anyone else experienced this or am I just looking into it way too much? LOL Thanks :)
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You may be looking into this a BIT much...
Look at it the other way around, would you want to put your hands all over that stuff? :)
LOL ^^^EXACTLY! I will NOT let my husband kiss me after he's gone down on me! EWW. You're over reacting!
chill out, he would have had to wipe his hands off anyways
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that's weird maybe it's just him.
my boyfriend never did that and i let him kiss me even if he does go down on me.. <3
Yeah! me too, I so don´t se any problem... I also think you should consider going off, on him and them him on you, there you'd see cauz it's really unfair if he wouldn't go down on you. (unless you do not like it ofc, but I think it's amazing)
It doesn't hurt to ask him why he does it. Some people are just anal about things like that ;) Ask him in a nice jokingly way when you catch him doing it. If you cant be open with each other about sex then i for-see a problem in your future. ASK HIM and Good Luck!
LOL! seriously??? maybe he is gay.
Um, this is totally normal. How old is everyone on this page? Like 16? Because it just avoids mess and unnecessary stains, spills, and mess!!!
I wouldn't take it personally. Let's face it, at least he used a condom and didn't complain! :D
Um... You're WAY overreacting. A TON! Almost every guy I know does that. It's just normal. it's messy and it helps HIS stuff not spill out too. So it may not even be your stuff that he is worried about. And even if it was, vaginal fluid is acidic and agitates (some more than others) on contact. Just deep breathes and it's COMPLETELY normal, I'm sure he still loves you and there's NOTHING to worry about.
really i think that sounds like bull shit
I agree with what most girls are saying here. It's nothing to worry about, he isn't disgusted by you or something, it's a normal thing to do I think. Do you like his stuff all over you? I suppose not, so try to see things from another perspective.
i think that's really prudent of him, like he's trying to keep the sheets clean or something. if you're still not convinced, ask him why he did it. In a jokey way if it's easier.
hahaha my boyfriend does that too. He just thinks its gross to touch is all. Im not gonna lie if I was a dude I wouldnt wanna touch something thats like a cum filled twinky that tends to drips whenever I mess with it. Sorry to be so brash but its true.