you know thats hard question to answer lol

well my parents had me when they were in their 20's
even before they got married
i was was planned, they just wanted a baby i guess...

me and my fiance would like to get our life together first... but i think at times... we want to have a baby... we talk about it all the time :)
but we btoh know its not right time....

i cant tell the future of what will happen...maybe we will wait... maybe we will have one before marriage....who knows lol

:)

my Mom told me "if everyone waited to have kids till the time was right there wouldn't be any people" Course I am sure she said that because I wasn't ready to have my own child when I got pregnant.

Anyway... On one hand I'll be 37 when my eldest turns 18.... So I will still be young enough to have the energy to do the things I want to do. On the other hand, it was more of a challenge to get to where I needed to be, successful. Either way I'm personally happy.

I wouldn't need my life completely together but I'd want it in a place that I know the baby would be safe and would live a good life.

A friend of mine from middle school just had a baby (she is now 19). She and the dad are engaged. She works at McDonalds and lives at home with her dad, and he's joined the Air Force, but they both have a really good support group and I really think that the baby is going to have a happy home life :)

Some parents wait until their life is in order and have kids and end up being suckish parents.

It all depends.

I think Its Depends on where you are in live & where you wanna be & who you are with, All these things should be taken into account. Its Not Horrible Either way it's Just If you where to have one sooner than later are you ready for all of this even though your life isn't settle either way having a Child is a big Change For either Environment. Good luck Either way if you are Considering.