I have been best friends with this girl since the 7th grade. We were so close and did everything together. We had a great time together, but gradually she started to get really obsessive and it seemed like she never left my side. I thought the best way to tell her I was feeling claustrophobic was to her face and refrain from talking behind her back to my other friends. My plan backfired; she ended up crying and thinking I was a backstabber. And we have had these problems since sophomore year of high school. Since that time we have had an on and off relationship. Senior year was by far the worst. It ended up involving my other close friends and it was like teams vs. each other, but it was only I and her problem. We do not speak anymore, but its hard on my other friends when we all see each other. I would not mind being friends again with her; I actually do miss her, but maybe not have as close of a relationship like before. My question is should I write her an email or message explaining how I feel now and that I am very sorry that all of this had to happen or should I just completely move on with our friendship?!