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posted by: Anonymous
at 8:03pm on: July 7, 2010
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I've got a question for the ladies out there on what would you do in this situation. I was with my now ex for a year and when we were together it was mainly physical, he was definitely the 'treat them mean keep them keen' type. A lot happened in that year but through the whole of it he never told me he loved me. Enough was enough when he cheated so we broke up. I then met my now boyfriend who treats me like a princess - I couldn't ask for more in a boyfriend. However he's gone away for a few months and my ex has used this as a chance to tell me he loves me and always has. I haven't spoken to him since this but can't seem to get him out of my head. I wouldn't take him back and although I miss my boyfriend and know I have something good that I don't want to lose, I can't stop thinking about what my ex said - help please!




at 8:35pm on: July 7, 2010
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Break all contact with your ex. He just wants the sex. If you cant keep away from the temptation, then you don't deserve to be with your current bf.

at 10:54pm on: July 7, 2010
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Get away from your ex. He treated you horribly and its unlikely he has changed. People who treat you badly sometimes really just can't stand to see you happy with someone else. You said you're happy with your current bf and he treats you well. Don't give that up for someone who can't even be bothered to tell you he loves you.

at 1:09pm on: July 8, 2010
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Darling. Your ex is taking advantage of you just like before. Your boyfriend is true to you, and loves you with all his heart...Why go for a one night stand that will ruin the rest of your life? Sex is emotional...its lust playing with your head that is giving you reasons blinded from you before in your previous relationship with your ex. You have that "what if he changed" feeling.

I made that same mistake just previously except the fact i wasnt dating anyone...but what I am saying is...NO GUY will say I love you out of the blue...without expecting not to work for the true meaning of it. He hasn't proven himself worthy before, and he will not now.

MOVE ON. CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH THIS GUY. LOVE THE GUY WHO TRULY LOVES YOU. And call it a day.