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posted by: Anonymous
at 6:23pm on: July 6, 2010
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I was just wondering what everyone's opinion is on liking your friend's exes. I think I might like one of my friend's exes. They broke up over a year ago. Do you think it's a no go territory or is it worth asking her about it?






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at 6:33pm on: July 6, 2010
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welll.... my boyfriend.. is a friend of my ex :$ lol! its always akward at the beginning... but now we can hang out just the three of us and it all ok. just talk to your ex before you start a relationship with his friend

at 7:29pm on: July 6, 2010
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I've had friends date my exes before. I'd talk to her about it. Each girl is different. Me, I don't care if my friends like an ex. I mean they've heard me complain post break up so I figure they know what they're getting into, so that's my opinion about it. But, some girls swear never to date a friend's ex. It just depends on the people involved though. It is awkward though, but you can get past that pretty easily. And if it's been over for a year I'd say it's pretty safe. But like I said, just ask her. Everyone is different.

at 11:37pm on: July 6, 2010
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I think it's okay. If people fall in love they can't help it, it's not out of spite at all. But you should always be careful of the damage to a friendship. I'm dating a guy who used to like my best friend (but nothing ever happened) and she feels oddly about it, but she's the only one. It's a case-by-case thing. :)

at 1:02pm on: July 8, 2010
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You need to talk to her about it...But i wouldnt cross into that territory...unless you want to loose her as a friend...i mean really find out if she will be okay with it and not just saying that...Like I did that in highschool, and I ruined a friendship for good.

Girls can say one thing but mean a whole different thing.

at 3:26pm on: September 4, 2010
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Ask her first... Its generally not a good thing to cross into exes territory unless you know they're okay with it. Two of my good friends were like sisters and they got into a huge argument about an ex because one dated the ex behind the back of the other, and today they still dont talk..so I would definitely talk it over with them first.

at 3:26pm on: September 4, 2010
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Ask her first... Its generally not a good thing to cross into exes territory unless you know they're okay with it. Two of my good friends were like sisters and they got into a huge argument about an ex because one dated the ex behind the back of the other, and today they still dont talk..so I would definitely talk it over with them first.