Question
I was just wondering what everyone's opinion is on liking your friend's exes. I think I might like one of my friend's exes. They broke up over a year ago. Do you think it's a no go territory or is it worth asking her about it?
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welll.... my boyfriend.. is a friend of my ex :$ lol! its always akward at the beginning... but now we can hang out just the three of us and it all ok. just talk to your ex before you start a relationship with his friend
I've had friends date my exes before. I'd talk to her about it. Each girl is different. Me, I don't care if my friends like an ex. I mean they've heard me complain post break up so I figure they know what they're getting into, so that's my opinion about it. But, some girls swear never to date a friend's ex. It just depends on the people involved though. It is awkward though, but you can get past that pretty easily. And if it's been over for a year I'd say it's pretty safe. But like I said, just ask her. Everyone is different.
I think it's okay. If people fall in love they can't help it, it's not out of spite at all. But you should always be careful of the damage to a friendship. I'm dating a guy who used to like my best friend (but nothing ever happened) and she feels oddly about it, but she's the only one. It's a case-by-case thing. :)
You need to talk to her about it...But i wouldnt cross into that territory...unless you want to loose her as a friend...i mean really find out if she will be okay with it and not just saying that...Like I did that in highschool, and I ruined a friendship for good.
Girls can say one thing but mean a whole different thing.
Ask her first... Its generally not a good thing to cross into exes territory unless you know they're okay with it. Two of my good friends were like sisters and they got into a huge argument about an ex because one dated the ex behind the back of the other, and today they still dont talk..so I would definitely talk it over with them first.
Ask her first... Its generally not a good thing to cross into exes territory unless you know they're okay with it. Two of my good friends were like sisters and they got into a huge argument about an ex because one dated the ex behind the back of the other, and today they still dont talk..so I would definitely talk it over with them first.
Well, I've liked my friends ex and found out he likes me, too. But you should still ask her about it because my friend got a little jeleous when we first started hanging out but now she doesn't even care. So ask first so you don't offend her.