Question
So I've thought I might be bi curious for a year or so now, but I've never been inclined to act on it, and I understand that a lot of times fantasies are just fantasies. Recently my boyfriend held a party at his house and (obviously) a lot of people showed. His best friend is a girl and she brought a lot of girls and I ended up talking to a lot of them. In short, it got to the point that I was about to hook up with one of the girls and then have some three some action with my boyfriend. He didn't care either way -- obviously it's many men's fantasy but he had no preference. He would never make me do something I didn't want to do. While nothing happened, I can't stop thinking about how I wanted to do that, or at least a part of me did. I feel guilty, like it was wrong. I held back because I was afraid it would ruin my relationship with my boyfriend -- what if he felt more attraction to her than me? What if I enjoyed being with another girl? I'm still young and all these new thoughts scare me. Could anyone offer clarification?
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It could very well just being a fantasy of yours that you are just dying to try out!
It's natural to hesitate to have a threesome with your boyfriend; your fears are natural. In my personal opionion (and that's only me lol) threesomes are for people who aren't seriously committed in the relationship. They're for fun. But like I said that's just my opinion. I think you need to get it out of your system (so to speak) and just go for it! It's really not all that different from being with a guy. (anatomically of course it is, but other than that it's about the same) If you're uncomfortable about your bf joining in, ask him if he'd be comfortable with you exploring that part of your sexuality without him. After all it is about you. But by talking it over with him first you can't be accused of cheating or something. It's up to you. It's obviously bothering you so you should definitely explore it a bit more. Have fun with it. =]
Every girl goes through some stage like that.
Just don't be affraid of trying new things if u feel like (:
Explore ..have fun!