Question
I cannot seem to move on from my ex-boyfriend. I love him. I have tried going dates with other guys, but all I ever do is hurt them because I end up not feeling the same about them as they do about me. I am just completely hung up on my ex. We broke up in December because he cheated on me. He has since apologized profusely, and my feelings for him just refuse to stop. I have tried everything (severing contact, dating around, being on my own) and I don't know what to do anymore. I miss him like crazy, but I don't even know if I could trust him again. Should I move on and forget him or try salvaging something? Help!!
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i suppose it depends on the severity of what happened. but you need to ask yourself if its worth saving. do you really truly believe this will be better for you in the long run or is there a bit of doubt as to whether he might do it again. i know most people say that "getting back on the horse" will work but thats not for everyone and often people go into this hoping they will get over their ex instead of finding a new partner which is unfair on the other person. i think the best way is to first decide whether its worth saving then go from there! remember this has got to be whats best for you not whats best for him or anyone else. you dont wanna get hurt again the same way.
in the mean time i say go hang out with your mates and have a good time. that doesnt have to involve men just go out for dinner with the girls or go watch movies or shop and hangout.
the best way for me to get over people is to hangout with my girlfriends. they will always be there for me and help me through hard times! so give that a go!
Hopes this helps!! remember this is all about you! :)