Question
I am 32, single for about 3 years and am completely paralyzed when it comes to taking the initative when asking a guy out. I am more positive everyday that I have an unapproachable vibe about me and know that I have got to start doing the asking or I am gonna wait forever! I am really interested in one guy in particular and would really like to ask him out but am so scared. We have chatted here and there but it would pretty much be a blind date situation. Any advice on how to get over my fear and just do it??
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Guys love it when girls are forward and it takes the pressure off of asking out. There is a possibility that this guy might be interested in you too but is too scared to ask you out. There's no real way to get over being scared except to just take the plunge and go for it. The worst he can say is no, but you'll never know until you ask! :) So go for it and good luck!
You really need to just bite the bullet and do it! Almost all of the guys I've gone out with, I've asked out. Yeah, it's nerve wracking but it's totally worth it in the end.
The only way to overcome a fear is to embrace it. You want it, so reach out and take it.