The VITAL first few steps!!!! GET OUT of the relationship! Call the POLICE! Make sure you take pictures of ANY marks on your body! FIND HELP! I can't even begin to tell you how important it is to do all of these. I have been there before. H...e beat me while I was pregnant and I almost lost the baby. If you don't do this it WILL ONLY GET WORSE! It's vital that you call the police and file a report. You don't want him to hurt anyone else. Be the bigger person and give him a taste of his own medicine, the right way. When a court date comes, BE THERE and DON'T drop the charges!!!! I mad that mistake too. Now he is back and I'm terrified! I won't leave my fiance's side because I'm scared he may find me and try to hurt me again. Listen to what everyone is saying. We are all here to help! Add me as a friend and talk to me if you need to. If you have no support or, even if you do I am also here for support. I don't know you but, I know how it is and know you need the support. You have a lot of it here and you don't even know us. Be the bigger person and put him were he belongs.... IN JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all believe in you!!!!!!!!!! Don't we girls?!?!?!?!
Aw, honey, leave! People will understand. You don't want to get stuck in that relationship! What if you have kids some day and he beats them too? Or what if he ends your life or hurts someone you love? Just leave him! Grab your girl friends, get some boxes (you can get big good ones at grocery stores) and get the hell out! Remember to love yourself. I'm not saying kill him, but watch Enough with JLo. Good movie! And you deserver better! You're a beautiful strong woman. He only hits you because he KNOWS he's not good enough! I don't pray much, but I'll say a prayer for you! Good luck!
The first thing you need to do i tell someone. You made a big step by admitting it on here, now you just need to tell someone. Your mom, dad, brother, cousin, someone who you know will not get so angry to confront the guy, but just to go with you to a woman's shelter or something. If you're too scared to tell friends or family, then call a help hot line, find a way where he can't see it on your records, a house phone, a pay phone, someone else's phone. But find a way out. After finding some help on how to do it properly (so you will not get hurt physically) break up with him. and go to court to get a restraining order, so if anything were to happen after you DO break up, you have protection. I would also recommend talking some form or self defense. He could try and come and hurt you any time. But you NEED to get out of this relationship if you even want to call it that. He does not love you, and you do not love him. No matter how much he may say it if he does say it, NOT ONE will EVER hurt ANYONE they love, this goes for moms, dads, you, girlfriends, or boyfriends, but please, FIND A WAY OUT!!!
GET OUT, he wants you to be afraid to think you have no other options but you do. No one deserves to be abused. Go to a friends, your parents, anyone who loves you will be willing to help. Please get help.
Man up, tell someone!!! What's the alternative, you get beaten up, or DEAD.
And learn some self-defense so you have something to resort to in an emergency
Man up?!! Idiot, she cant. That would kill her, litterly. Obviously you haven't been in an abusive relationship. Abuser prey on weak women. Manipulate them..... What she needs to do if find a women's shelter, get in touch with the local United Way, they have tons of resources. And whatever he says know it's not true, he hasn't changed, you can't make him see anything, he'll just continue trying to manipulate you, grasping at straws. If you can't leave right away, and if you can make something up, UW has group therapy sessions, the women in these groups will help you, encourage you and give you the strength to get away!
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End the relationship. You deserve better.
The VITAL first few steps!!!! GET OUT of the relationship! Call the POLICE! Make sure you take pictures of ANY marks on your body! FIND HELP! I can't even begin to tell you how important it is to do all of these. I have been there before. H...e beat me while I was pregnant and I almost lost the baby. If you don't do this it WILL ONLY GET WORSE! It's vital that you call the police and file a report. You don't want him to hurt anyone else. Be the bigger person and give him a taste of his own medicine, the right way. When a court date comes, BE THERE and DON'T drop the charges!!!! I mad that mistake too. Now he is back and I'm terrified! I won't leave my fiance's side because I'm scared he may find me and try to hurt me again. Listen to what everyone is saying. We are all here to help! Add me as a friend and talk to me if you need to. If you have no support or, even if you do I am also here for support. I don't know you but, I know how it is and know you need the support. You have a lot of it here and you don't even know us. Be the bigger person and put him were he belongs.... IN JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all believe in you!!!!!!!!!! Don't we girls?!?!?!?!
Aw, honey, leave! People will understand. You don't want to get stuck in that relationship! What if you have kids some day and he beats them too? Or what if he ends your life or hurts someone you love? Just leave him! Grab your girl friends, get some boxes (you can get big good ones at grocery stores) and get the hell out! Remember to love yourself. I'm not saying kill him, but watch Enough with JLo. Good movie! And you deserver better! You're a beautiful strong woman. He only hits you because he KNOWS he's not good enough! I don't pray much, but I'll say a prayer for you! Good luck!
The first thing you need to do i tell someone. You made a big step by admitting it on here, now you just need to tell someone. Your mom, dad, brother, cousin, someone who you know will not get so angry to confront the guy, but just to go with you to a woman's shelter or something. If you're too scared to tell friends or family, then call a help hot line, find a way where he can't see it on your records, a house phone, a pay phone, someone else's phone. But find a way out. After finding some help on how to do it properly (so you will not get hurt physically) break up with him. and go to court to get a restraining order, so if anything were to happen after you DO break up, you have protection. I would also recommend talking some form or self defense. He could try and come and hurt you any time. But you NEED to get out of this relationship if you even want to call it that. He does not love you, and you do not love him. No matter how much he may say it if he does say it, NOT ONE will EVER hurt ANYONE they love, this goes for moms, dads, you, girlfriends, or boyfriends, but please, FIND A WAY OUT!!!
You have a HECK of a lot more replies on the GGT Facebook fan page, I wold check there too for some more, experienced advice too.
GET OUT, he wants you to be afraid to think you have no other options but you do. No one deserves to be abused. Go to a friends, your parents, anyone who loves you will be willing to help. Please get help.
Man up, tell someone!!! What's the alternative, you get beaten up, or DEAD.
And learn some self-defense so you have something to resort to in an emergency
good luck
Man up?!! Idiot, she cant. That would kill her, litterly. Obviously you haven't been in an abusive relationship. Abuser prey on weak women. Manipulate them..... What she needs to do if find a women's shelter, get in touch with the local United Way, they have tons of resources. And whatever he says know it's not true, he hasn't changed, you can't make him see anything, he'll just continue trying to manipulate you, grasping at straws. If you can't leave right away, and if you can make something up, UW has group therapy sessions, the women in these groups will help you, encourage you and give you the strength to get away!