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Why does sex have to be this way? GRR! Alright heres the story ladies. I met my current boyfriend after an inebriated sex filled night at some party. After that night we went on a date and we clicked instantly. After about two weeks of just going out we finally decided to make it official nice story right? Heres where the problem starts to enter.
Before now, we had perfect ten sex all the time, almost everyday, and it never got old we had different positions, we always tried it in new places (FYI I urge you to try it outside on a car. haha(; ), and we always 'satisfied' each other. Anyways, I left for a trip to Georgia/Indiana for two weeks and when I got back the sex was just bad! We just thought we were a little rusty we figure we would try again when HE got back from HIS trip (I only saw him that one day after I got back for he had his trip very soon after mine). Basically the past MONTH since hes gotten back our sex is nothing but horrible, not bad, horrible.
We both initiate. Im into it and hes into it, then we start to get it going....and then it ends. He cums and its over. It LITERALLY ends in 2 minutes. (Is that a world record?) We have tried and he still cant seem to keep it going long enough for us to actually enjoy the feelings your supposed to get out of having sex! HELP HELP HELP! I dunno whats going on! Its like going from rags to riches in reverse! Ladies I need some advice!
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When you overthink sex, you don't enjoy it. Maybe because you and your boyfriend are trying so hard to have the amazing sex that you guys had before yall's time apart that you're overthinking it. When you go to have sex, don't think about "oh, its only gonna last 2 minutes" or "this isn't how it used to be". Take it for what it is face value, in the moment, at the time. Clear your mind and expectations and just enjoy it.
I hope this helps. Don't think, just do. Haha.
Haha. No. My 30 second sex and feeling nothing is the record!!!
if you think 30 second sex is bad, try giving a 30 second hand job. First and last time I did anything sexual with that boyfriend.
It sounds like he's either being selfish or is just REALLY turned on by you. Maybe you guys just need to build up your time again. I dunno. This is sort of odd, because if there was a problem then you or he wouldn't be cumming. I think you two should keep trying for a little bit longer.
Hm try.. wait, what is it called in english? Foreplay?
Yeah I think that's it. Just try having a little foreplay before AND after the sex. Try out something totally new like... games or something. Whipped cream is both tasty and sexy!
Btw, relax and don't overthing about it.
Nope, my record is as soon as it was in, he came....
Whenever my boyfriend gets "way too turned on" we do this thing called a perineum stop I think... anyways, what you do is he tells you just before he cums, then he pulls out, holds it, and you push on his perineum while slightly tugging his testicles. Result: lasts longer and when he cums the feeling is a lot stronger. My boyfriend passed out once ;)
Actually all of your guys comments totally helped. Thanks(:
Unfortunately the reason why he and I were having such bad sex was because he had genital herpes!
The relationship lasted only three moths after this incident and he broke up with me out of spite.
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ive the same problem with my bf... we found the way to have good sex... we try at least 3 positions and when he feels he is about to come, we do the cow girls then we have a weird but really pleasant position where im on top of him... that let me come then he comes... and everybody is happy...
talkin bout other things i think ive the record... the first time i had sex with my bf he didnt even get inside and he came... the worse sex, non sex i ever had...
If it is really a problem with premature ejaculation, then this article seems pretty handy if you want some ideas to help. It gives info directed towards guys mainly and their girlfriends. http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Premature-Ejaculation