You just described my skin.
For cleaning, neutrogena 2 in 1, and don't let your skin dry out too much or you'll get break outs too, ( I didn't think it made sense either; but that's how it is)
I use Pond's cream, don't know the name in there but in my country is "clarant B3" cauz it also helps removing scars from previous break outs. I recommend using it only once per day or your face becomes too dependant and dries out easily.
Hope it works, good luck with that.

I have really sensitive skin, and is it oily and dry as well and I use proactive actually...but only the face wash, I don't use toner as it dries out my skin and if you are going to go for a toner make sure it doesn't have alcohol in it...that will really dry your skin out but for moisturizer I use Clinique...the yellow one, but the cream, not the gel because I found that the gel doesn't work as well.
I also have a very good oil that I put on my skin at night on the breakouts that I get and over my nose...its by Nelly Duvyst (I think thats how it is spelt) and if you can find an esthetician that sells it, it has saved my skin more times than I can remember.
hope this helps

I use the wave from neutrogena (spelling??) and it has worked wonders for me. The replacement pad are only about $5 and they last you about a month. i suggest since your skin is sensitive then use everyother nigh so you dont dry out your skin or anything like that :)