Have you tried online dating? Some of my friends and clients swear by it. "you just bought the perfect dress. now you need the best shoes to go with it. are you going to sit around and wait for them to appear in front of you? or go hunt them down online?"- how one of my clients describes finding the perfect man online lol.

A friend of mines mom just met a wonderful man a few months ago whom shes fallen deeply in love with. So they are still out there... the trick is to not look in places like bars.. The single men in a bar are not looking to date at all..Keep your head up, a smile on your face, and your heart open, Love will find you.

yeah, try going to places other then bars and clubs, I mean yeah it's easy to meet guys there but I mean, 1. They good be totally hammered and talking out of their ass and 2. They're not looking to date exclusively, if you've ever watched Jersey Shore, then you get my drift.

and I know you've probably heard this over and over again but you're time will come, don't try and find love, and it'll come.

I am 39 and single again....and wondering the same thing. I think the bar thing is true. You can go out to them, but don't bring anything home from them... =) And I am in DFW as well - so if you are looking for single friends to hang out with...let me know. =)