I've been out of bad relationship for about a year now and I feel like I'm ready to get back into the dating game. The thing is, I feel like I've always attracted bad seeds in terms of boyfriends. What can I do to get someone who is NICE and CARING for once? There's a really cute guy I work with that I recently met and I don't even know how to act around him, I get so shy and scared. All my friends say that my last boyfriend broke my spirit a lot. How do I get that back?