Okay, this a question about how to move on. I was with a guy for only a little over 3 months, but before that we were close friends. I fell for him harder than anybody I've ever fell for. The biggest problem is that we were too much a like, both really stubborn and struggled to deal with our emotions, so we ended up arguing a lot. So he broke up with me before we had the chance to really figure out exactly why it all went crazy, but because we didn't want to throw away our friendship, we stayed friends. It's been almost 2 months and in the last two weeks I've been increasingly more upset over our break up. When we broke up, I was upset, but not all that much. I hardly cried, I didn't get angry and we were getting along quite happily.

Then suddenly, the whole thing seemed to hit me last weekend and I'm not sure how to deal with it. I've always been the kind of person that moves on super quickly, but this time I can't. I keep thinking about things we should be doing together, how much I miss him and every time I see him , I spend the rest of the day thinking about him non-stop. How on Earth can I move on?

Cutting him out of my life is not an option, because not only do we rely on each other's friendship...we also work together. I just need some advice, how do you move on from what I believe to be the love of my life?