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It's been 6 months since my ex and I of 6 years broke up. I'm finally ready to date again but I feel entirely clueless on the whole dating thing. I'm not looking to jump into another relationship but I'm not opposed to it if I meet a fabulous guy. So I'm just wondering what are the big mistakes we ladies make with guys?



Being too available and too needy

trusting them, beleiving that they wont break our heart.

Don't jump into the serious part of a relationship too quickly.

Going to fast because we don't know if they are ready or not, and they don't help along

Always think the worst thing and thinking that we can change them! If they want to change they can do that themselves. I don't get how once ur in a relationship for a long time how girls don't trust there man. I'm guilty of that. If itz a good relationship y do we worry?

Probably one of the biggest mistakes we make is thinking the guy won't like us for who we are, so we pretend to be someone else. If the guy doesn't like you for you, then he's no good. You need to find a guy that will like you no matter what!

i so agree with the ladies above me. a guy... if he really is into you. believe me he'll do anything and everything just to be with you. if at the first date he tries to point out. meaning he tries to get points from u, then i believe that its not the relationship he is looking for.

what 'he's not that into you' the main chick is the biggest example of what not to do.