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posted by: Ashley Bonnington
at 2:03am on: December 23, 2009
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Eek! I just met this guy, and we clicked right away. So we're dating and I'm very happy! Except... HE'S MOVING REALLY FAST. He's already talking marriage and testing what my name would sound like with his last name and very shortly after we decided we'd start dating he said he loves me. I'm not sure I'm ready to be looking at marriage yet! I want to tell him to slow down a bit, but I don't want to potentially hurt his feelings by coming off the wrong way. What would you say?






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at 2:20am on: December 23, 2009
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be straight with him. next time you talk to him, bring it up right away. be polite, but be firm. he might slip a little, but if he's not changed in a couple weeks, pull the plug. i'm sure he's great, but you don't need that.

at 11:13am on: December 23, 2009
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no u maybe need that but not now lateer on

at 2:28am on: December 23, 2009
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Haha, i do that too. Luckily my bf doesnt mind, it makes him happy :p
You need to sit your guy down and remind him your just getting to know him. He'd appreciate the honesty.

at 4:03am on: December 23, 2009
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First of all, some people just click that way and go fast and stay happy! I know several couples like that. This happens when you meet the right person!

On the other hand if you're not happy with how things are going jsut tell him, there is no use in botteling this up and then have it come out at the wrong time like right before you get married!

at 8:38am on: December 23, 2009
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Moving fast is not good if it is in a just-met dating situation. But I would suggest you confirm with him if there is misunderstanding in reading those messages, as I have watched a movie before saying two people at university they are becoming very comfortable to each other, some kind of can read each other's mind that kind of friend. They talk freely almost everything, including each other personal lives. But both of them have their own personal lives. I'd suggest you recall every words of his was it a friendly care or deeper than that. The checking may save from embarrassment at either of you. If it does seem deeper than a friend love, then you could tell it striaght to him you are not interested at marriage yet.

at 9:08am on: December 23, 2009
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"Don't push or you'll push me away. we have to get to know eachother a lot better before we can know if we are heading that way." or something like that...

at 1:05pm on: December 23, 2009
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Its always important to be sure both of you want the same things . Tell him you are not ready :) maybe he just like you a lot and thats why he sees both of u in a very serious relationship :D

at 4:17pm on: December 29, 2009
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if he is this way now, he will only get worse. sounds desparate