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at 5:38pm on: September 15, 2009
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I'm going to university in a few days, but there is a boy I have been spending the summer with. We're good friends, but the truth is, I love him very much. I'm concerned about whether I should tell him before I leave? Would it make things harder, or would it be best to let him know how I feel? I don't want to make things awkward for us, as I want to keep in contact with him and see him again when I come home the next summer..

Advice?




at 5:55pm on: September 15, 2009
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I just went though something like this last year. I told him how I felt during my first week of college and we decided to start long distance dating. It worked for a while and we'd visit each other during the breaks, but it was just too hard. He got controlling and I wasn't really having a fun college experience since I was pretty much chained to my computer so I could talk to him.
My advice is to keep your feelings to yourself and see what happens at university. There are so many awesome guys out there and wouldn't it be better to see your bf every day instead of every semester?

at 5:56pm on: September 15, 2009
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LIFE IS TOO SHORT HONEY...LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL ABOUT HIM AND THINK POSITIVE!!! GOOD LUCK AND PLS LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!!!

at 6:10pm on: September 15, 2009
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yes defo let him no i fell in love and didnt say anything now im not happy at all noone will ever match up to him !!!

at 8:27pm on: September 15, 2009
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I agree with Efie. TELL THE GUY HOW U FEEL. If he doesn't feel the same then it's his loss.

at 10:59pm on: September 15, 2009
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You COULD tell him how you feel, but I mean, if you feel like you're legitimately crushing/loving this guy, I don't see why you shouldn't say anything. But if you're the type that feels that you might wanna "scope around" during university, I feel as if maybe you should just "keep the ball rolling", get EVEN closer as the year goes on, have a hookup or two at university (1- if you feel like it, 2-if you wanna explore) and then, the next time you see him, it'll be much easier to say, because you've known him for much longer. :)

at 2:43am on: September 16, 2009
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i think you should tell him. but remember its not the end of the world if he doesnt like u back. if he cherishes ur friendship, you guys can stay as friends.
i have crushed on a guy too for a long time, and i think he knows but nothing has ever come from that, we are now only best buds.

at 6:57am on: September 16, 2009
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at 6:56am on: September 16, 2009
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If your leaving, don't complicate things by making a snap love statement, just realise some times timing is everything, and it looks like you missed yours, move on.

at 9:51am on: September 16, 2009
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See how it goes while you're in school...sometimes knowing you're going to be leaving can make you think you're having feelings for someone. it's actually (in my experience) just a kind of early 'homesick'-ness!!!

at 11:44am on: September 17, 2009
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If you dont tell him... you will only regret it and wonder your whole life if it could have turned into something. go ahead girly. you only live once.

at 4:32pm on: September 23, 2009
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Let him know. You will regrt not telling him so much in the future. But keep this in mind too, do you really love him and would you live your whole life with him?