Question
I just started college this year and my boyfriend is a senior in high school. During the summer we used to hang out all the time. We even talked about how difficult it would be with me going to college, living on campus and studying but we decided we would try and make it work. Lately we haven't been hanging out as much and when we do hang out we have sex then I help him with his homework or he drops me back off at campus (he lives close to campus and I don't have a car). I feel like he doesn't care for me as much as he used to. He races dirt bikes and he told me recently that his bike was his number one priority. I'm not sure what to do... I keep thinking I should break up with him if he thinks his bike is more important than me... any suggestions???
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Talk to him ...
A good relationship is based on communication.
His answer about is bike lets suggested that he wants to break up so...
Let's talk, if it's the end, it's the end, you'll find another guy who will really cares about you :)
thanks... ill talk to him today.
thanks... ill talk to him today.
I am in the same boat as you! i am going to college in January and my boyfriend is in grade 12. we did everything togeather in the summer day trips and just hanging out doing nothing as long a we were togeather thats all we cared about. and we know its going to be hard on us when i start University but they one thing we alwasy tell eachother is, that we love eachother and we know that whatever comes our way we will tackle it togeather.
and yes Amel is right A good relationship is based on communication.
and about the sex when you guys hang out. next time you guys hang out try doing someting fun and random. like bowling, or something kinda random just to mix things up.
i hope this helps!