So this guy I had been dating just stopped texting me cold turkey. I am debating whether I should text him or not. It's been 3 days and the last text I got from him said,"ok nvm". This was after I put "Maybe we can meet up after.." WHAT DO I DOOO!!!
Maybe you should call him and be like "I haven't heard from you in a couple of days is everything ok?" see how he reacts don't get mad at first though never a good idea.
it's like the "he's not that into you" dilemma. we'll never know though. if you two have been open about anything under the sun then try talking to him straight to the point. just prepare your ears with what he'll say.
so...I going to pass on what a good guy friend has told me before. If a guy is interested in you, he will find a way to talk to you. From our numerous conversations about guys and girls, I can tell you that the basic, normal guy will go for the girl he likes. I agree with Marianne on this. You can try talking to him (using logic not emotion or desperation) but just be prepared for any answer.
I hate to sound too forward or mean, but sometimes life's realities just suck.
i think you should text him just to find out what the crack is, if he liked you that much he wouldve made sure he talked to you. you'll never know if you dont ask. but dont sound too pushy. just be prepared to hear the worst. if you do get over him and move on there are plenty of other lads out there that will love you for who you are so forget him...
Maybe something happened..family death, whatever. You should call with an "Is everything ok? I haven't heard from you in a couple days..". Like everyone is saying, though, be prepared for anything. . .
Don't worry, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. <3 Just think, if this doesn't work out, you can find a guy who can communicate without his "txt tlk". Good luck, hon!
Other girls have aleady mentioned the whole "if a guy likes you, he'll be with you" thing...and it's true! However, if you are curious for a straight answer (which anyone deserves) you can call him, but be chill about it. Don't start ranting or listing off assumptions/suspicions. Just ask how he's been or something. DO NOT ask if he's okay, that starts to sound like you're worried. If he gives one word answers or doesn't reply to your txt (or voicemail if you leave one), then shrug it off and move on.
Same thing just happened to my friend. 3 days went by. He got a new phone because he broke his old one. had to get ppls numbers to be able to find hers. It could be something as simple as that. But I say after 1 week drop it! There are plenty of other ppl out there!
i used to have this situation before....after a week of him disappearing i call him up and start a conversation like normal and ends it like we always used to.but the next few days he disappear again.to me its like he don't intend to be friend with me again so i drop him off and start a new life...you may wish to try this tactic..and see whats the outcome...
i wish you all the best and all luck......bear in mind that its not you who lose him..its him who lose a great gal like you...its just not worth it to stress for a guy like him...
Yep, all sorts of things could be going on with him.. don't assume the worst.. but, if you just
have to know right now... then, call him...mention how you havent talked in a bit and was
wondering if he is ok.. see how he responds.. you will know.. it will be in his voice and how
he answers.. let you woman's intuition tell you.. and listen...
Ahhh I think that no matter what, busy, working, I always say they have 1 min. to send a text or call, so if he hasnt called and days have gone by " he's just not into you" sorry sometimes we dont want to hear it but its the truth.. Its happens to me, and my friends tell me that men run away from me I ask myself why? I tell you send him a simple text and from there you will know...
Good Luck,
how have you been acting with him? sometimes we can play it too cool. maybe the ' ok nvm' was a an 'ok ur clearly not interested enough'. maybe this guy is waiting to hear from u? just a thought. i would send him one last txt. 'hey. how are you?' or ' work is so dull today. wot u up to?' or something just to see if he responds. if he doesn't then you have ur answer.
Girl im going through the same thing. I mean its ridiculous how they play games like that and think its all good to just not text. Im saying this to be nice and save you heartache...BREAK-UP with him asap. If hes doing this now, he'll do it again. I went through the same thing and basically broke up with my by never contacting me again. Dont set yourself up to be hurt, drop him like a bad habit and do it asap. Good Luck Girl!
That happend to me .. i let it go for awhiel but then i finaly gave up and told him it was over. You should do the same thing. obviously he isnt serious about the relation ship.
my boyfriend did this, he went away and texted me when he got back then stoppeed talkin to me, he hasnt spoke to me since and its been 3 weeks, he made his mind up so i guess its time to move on make sure u leave him NOW u will only get hurt more after
Maybe you should call him and be like "I haven't heard from you in a couple of days is everything ok?" see how he reacts don't get mad at first though never a good idea.
it's like the "he's not that into you" dilemma. we'll never know though. if you two have been open about anything under the sun then try talking to him straight to the point. just prepare your ears with what he'll say.
so...I going to pass on what a good guy friend has told me before. If a guy is interested in you, he will find a way to talk to you. From our numerous conversations about guys and girls, I can tell you that the basic, normal guy will go for the girl he likes. I agree with Marianne on this. You can try talking to him (using logic not emotion or desperation) but just be prepared for any answer.
I hate to sound too forward or mean, but sometimes life's realities just suck.
i really wouldnt read into it too much. There are plenty of people out there.
after a week, no reply then just forget it gal...he's not that into you
1 question..how long have you known him???
for about a month.
i think you should text him just to find out what the crack is, if he liked you that much he wouldve made sure he talked to you. you'll never know if you dont ask. but dont sound too pushy. just be prepared to hear the worst. if you do get over him and move on there are plenty of other lads out there that will love you for who you are so forget him...
I would just send him a casual text saying, "Hey, haven't heard from you in a few days. How are you?" and see where it goes, if anywhere.
Maybe something happened..family death, whatever. You should call with an "Is everything ok? I haven't heard from you in a couple days..". Like everyone is saying, though, be prepared for anything. . .
Don't worry, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. <3 Just think, if this doesn't work out, you can find a guy who can communicate without his "txt tlk". Good luck, hon!
He's probably dealing with some stuff...let the man be and when he's ready he'll get in touch with you..
he's breaking up with you :/ sorry! dont worry-theres better people out there :)
Other girls have aleady mentioned the whole "if a guy likes you, he'll be with you" thing...and it's true! However, if you are curious for a straight answer (which anyone deserves) you can call him, but be chill about it. Don't start ranting or listing off assumptions/suspicions. Just ask how he's been or something. DO NOT ask if he's okay, that starts to sound like you're worried. If he gives one word answers or doesn't reply to your txt (or voicemail if you leave one), then shrug it off and move on.
Same thing just happened to my friend. 3 days went by. He got a new phone because he broke his old one. had to get ppls numbers to be able to find hers. It could be something as simple as that. But I say after 1 week drop it! There are plenty of other ppl out there!
i used to have this situation before....after a week of him disappearing i call him up and start a conversation like normal and ends it like we always used to.but the next few days he disappear again.to me its like he don't intend to be friend with me again so i drop him off and start a new life...you may wish to try this tactic..and see whats the outcome...
i wish you all the best and all luck......bear in mind that its not you who lose him..its him who lose a great gal like you...its just not worth it to stress for a guy like him...
xoxo
puteri
Yep, all sorts of things could be going on with him.. don't assume the worst.. but, if you just
have to know right now... then, call him...mention how you havent talked in a bit and was
wondering if he is ok.. see how he responds.. you will know.. it will be in his voice and how
he answers.. let you woman's intuition tell you.. and listen...
Ahhh I think that no matter what, busy, working, I always say they have 1 min. to send a text or call, so if he hasnt called and days have gone by " he's just not into you" sorry sometimes we dont want to hear it but its the truth.. Its happens to me, and my friends tell me that men run away from me I ask myself why? I tell you send him a simple text and from there you will know...
Good Luck,
how have you been acting with him? sometimes we can play it too cool. maybe the ' ok nvm' was a an 'ok ur clearly not interested enough'. maybe this guy is waiting to hear from u? just a thought. i would send him one last txt. 'hey. how are you?' or ' work is so dull today. wot u up to?' or something just to see if he responds. if he doesn't then you have ur answer.
Girl im going through the same thing. I mean its ridiculous how they play games like that and think its all good to just not text. Im saying this to be nice and save you heartache...BREAK-UP with him asap. If hes doing this now, he'll do it again. I went through the same thing and basically broke up with my by never contacting me again. Dont set yourself up to be hurt, drop him like a bad habit and do it asap. Good Luck Girl!
That happend to me .. i let it go for awhiel but then i finaly gave up and told him it was over. You should do the same thing. obviously he isnt serious about the relation ship.
my boyfriend did this, he went away and texted me when he got back then stoppeed talkin to me, he hasnt spoke to me since and its been 3 weeks, he made his mind up so i guess its time to move on make sure u leave him NOW u will only get hurt more after
He's done-- for now at least... find someone else like he probably did. :)