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I went on a first date with a guy three days ago, it went really well and we clicked quite well too. When we said our goodnights he asked me where he could kiss me and I said the cheek and he did. He promised to call me the next day. Now it's been three days but he hasn't called yet. I don't know if I should call him first or if he is following the three day rule or if not allowing him to kiss me properly turned him off. Should I call or let it go?.



Maybe you should go and see the movie "He's Not That Into You" :)

Give it a week. Guys like to "play hard" and make u sweat whether they are gonna call or not. But then again if this guy is into games you might not want him. Keep on dating girl! Dont stop the show for him.

Could he have lost your number?

he may be busy at the moment...try to call him and start a conversation as per normal..see how his respond...

You can call if you like, but I'd advise against it. Also, don't let other girls excuse his abscense with lame stuff like "Maybe he lost your number?" or "Maybe he's busy/had an emergency, etc" Unless you guys met in a totally random place like a grocery store, he probably knows where to find you if he did loose your number and if he truly liked you he'd put forth that effort.
And I agree with the girl who said you should watch (or read) "He's Just Not That Into You", it sucks but most guys aren't very forward with rejection and hope that you'll get the hint eventually. I'm not saying he's blowing you off, but I'd wait a week and if he doesn't call then oh well, more fish in the sea. :)

I agree with the first post: "He's Just Not That Into You" girl. Get over it and move on to someone who can't wait to call you after a date!

I agree with the first post: "He's Just Not That Into You" girl. Get over it and move on to someone who can't wait to call you after a date!

Well thats kinda rude. Do you see him at school/work? If you do you should try saying hi, don't accuse him, be friendly, and see if you can pick up anything. It may just be that, as suggested above, hes not into you. OR, it could be that (if hes a kid) he got grounded from the phone/pc or something else so he was unable to contact you.

If kissing you on the cheek was a turn off..then that is his problem.. if he really likes you..
he will call, if not, it is his loss.. move on girl.. life is too short...

it's hard but do not call him because guys like a girl that is hard to get not one who is throwing themselves at them. it is hard not to call because girls tend to be the opposite. give it a week or so he might surprise you and call but if he doesn't, keep your head up and find someone else.

it's hard but do not call him because guys like a girl that is hard to get not one who is throwing themselves at them. it is hard not to call because girls tend to be the opposite. give it a week or so he might surprise you and call but if he doesn't, keep your head up and find someone else.

it's hard but do not call him because guys like a girl that is hard to get not one who is throwing themselves at them. it is hard not to call because girls tend to be the opposite. give it a week or so he might surprise you and call but if he doesn't, keep your head up and find someone else.

Most guys don't like playing games. Maybe he's just nervous, and that's why he won't call. If you like him and want to see him again, then you call him. He'd probably respect that, and the worst that would happen is he says he doesn't think it'll work out. And, you know what? At least it'll be closure, and you won't have to wonder about what he thinks anymore.

I'd say forget about him. If he doesn't text or call you he's not that keen. Don't make excuses. If he lost your number he'd find a way to contact you.

You did just the right thing with the kiss. On the cheek is perfect for a first date. It wouldn't be a turnoff if he's keen. It would leave him wanting to see you again, hoping for more. But if he's just not that into you, then he wouldn't have bothered with you anyway, even if you'd have snogged him etc.

Don't call him, if he's really interested he'll call you. Just keep dating :)

Trust me, if he's into you, he will find a way to contact you. And soon. My boy texted me as soon as he got home from our first date, lol. We'd already been talking back and forth for a while, but never officially met til then, and it surprised me that he responded so fast.

So yeah, I agree "He's Just Not That Into You."

I agree - don't call him. If he wanted to speak to you he will find a way to get in touch with you. Don't make yourself crazy with this "did he lose my number" and all those thoughts. It's time to say NEXT! Keep dating random dudes.

Yep. If he's into you, you'll know it.