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How do you get over hating a specific part of your body and start loving yourself? I hate my legs but I know I need to get over it because they aren't going anywhere.



Be realistic - hate your legs, but love your cleavage? Make the most of what you have. Nobody's perfect, so try not to think about your shortcomings and love yourself anyway. Even supermodels hate something about themselves, so even if the rest of the world sees you as gorgeous, you might find it hard to admit it.

Also, if you hate your legs, just imagine if you didn't have any. Which would you prefer?

Well start by finding out what exactly you have about your legs. Is it that they're fat? Too skiny? Too long? Then find a way to work with it. Too fat? Do squats? Too skiny? Build some muscle. Too long? Avoid heels, and wear clothes that make them look shorter. Watch what not to wear. It helps. Just love yourself for who you are.

Only YOU can learn to love yourself exactly as you are, no one else can do that for you. You just have to realize that even though you're not perfect, no one else is, too. Everyone has something they don't like about themselves. Look at all the confident women around you, be it at school or work. They have problems with their bodies, too, but they accepted it and moved on, and look great, even though they might not like their hair, stomach, legs, nose, whatever.
There are also a lot of ways to camouflage your imperfections. You don't like your legs? You can make them look taller, shorter, curvier, thinner- just by the jeans you wear. It's all about illusion. Look online to see ways to hide your imperfections. You can also play up parts about you that you DO like. Say you like your arms? Show them off, and your legs will fade into the background.
The most important thing is just accepting yourself as you are, and knowing that you're beautiful even though you're not perfect.

Show off what you like, hide what you don't. That way you bring all the attention you want where you want it. Like I also hated my legs because I've got a lot of scars, so I used to cover them up by wearing leggings or jeans, but I love my hourglass figure, so I wear tight tops... Over time I've learned to live with my legs, and I've started being able to show them more. I don't know, just realised no one's perfect so there's no point in trying to be.

Learn to accept yourself for who you are with all those wonderful imperfections that make you "you". You mat not like your too big nose or chubby thighs, but it just might be the thing that someone else finds attractive in you. Love is seeing all the imperfections in someone and seeing perfection, because no one is perfect and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. God mad you in his image, man and woman, be proud of yourself , love yourself, and take care of yourself. Forget the social pressure to be perfect. You are perfect the way you are.

Be contented with everything you have. At least you are normal. Think for those who aren't, those who doesn't even have to part of your body that you hate the most, to hate. Nobody is like you, you are unique yourself.

The best thing you can do, if it's bothering you that much, is to focus on the area you don't like. For example you don't like your legs, Start cycling? It's the small steps that you do, That tend to lead to a better and bigger picture, Good luckkkkkk :)