I go to an all-women's college, so my dating life is very limited. I don't drink and am not really a party girl. Instead, I perfer to get all my work done, and with no car, I really can't go anywhere but downtown. My parents really don't approve of online dating and I was raised very conservatively, so how can I meet guys?


Try going to the library to do homework & such. You might find some guys there. Also you can ask your friends if they know any single guys. You never know who you might meet that way. (Thats how I meet some of my previous boyfriends.) Or you could just walk around downtown (I don't know what all is there in your city but...) you could find a guy there, too. :)
I actually work at the library, and...well, let's just say some of the guys there are creepy. Like, "carry pepper spray" creepy.
First of all, its not your parents choice. If you want to look around online, then why not?
Take homework with you to restaurants or something. You can guy watch while you eat salad/ice cream/whatever and study. If you find someone who looks intresting its as easy as saying hey.
intelligence = sexy : ) someone might just come up to you instead.
I hadn't thought of this. I know some cute guys at the ice cream shop and coffee shops. Might as well try that. :)
:) Im glad i could help! Im cheering for you ^_^
That really sucks! :O
If you go to an all-girls school and don't go off campus...yikes.
See if there are any girls going off campus to parties, bars, etc. You don't have to drink, just join in a conversation!
Well try a dance class. Like a salsa or tango class. I met my hunnie there
and i been ballroom dancing for 4 years now. Its a great way
to met guys and friends aswell! try it out its rly rly fun
and u'll get in shap too!!! :)
I would say you can meet someone anywhere, in a situation where you go to an all woman's college, it's hard to say meet the guy in school, but I am sure there's a corresponding guy's college somewhere around. So I'd find out if there's any interesting festivals or school events which take place, seminars or anything, and bring a friend with you, have a great time and maybe you'll meet someone there. But if you don't go out there and discover the world, even by using public transportation, you'll never meet anyone(trust me).
& It's your life, I can understand growing up conservatively, but it is YOUR life, and you've gotten far enough to be in college. You don't want to live your whole life wishing to do something fun, and when you're old and wrinkly, you won't be able to enjoy life the same way. & an idea popped in to my head just now, go check out sports games where ever you live, a lot of guys enjoy sports... good luck!!!=) I am honestly having the same dilemma right now, except for the fact that I go to a city college, which has loads of good looking guys, even a hottie librarian ;) hehe but I don't seem to be attracted to anyone who is making an attempt to go out with me.
i go an all girls school too, just meet friends of friends and eventually you'll have a big circle of friends INCLUDING guys!
I go to an all girl college and the way we meet guys is when we have big parties and have guys come to our parties and other schools come to our parties..or you can try the mall to or something like that..that is what me and my friends do!!
Thanks for all the help guys! I'll get there!
Try doing homework at coffee shops. I tend to meet tons of people there. Or you could try joining an off campus club or charity. This could lead you to meeting new people. And do not discount the other women at your school. These girls guaranteed have guy friends out there. So try making some friends and then meeting their guy friends from other schools. Plus it's also a no pressure situation. It's just hanging out. And there are always other people out there who do not want to just party. You'll find more people like yourself. Just keep looking around!
I also go to a women's college. If there is a mostly guy's or all guy's college nearby, ask some of your friends if they have friends who attend it. Go with them when they go to visit them, cause they might have friends who you might just click with. Or again on the whole nearby guys school thing, maybe your hall will do some things with a hall at the guys school.Mine is doing a "Thanksgiving Dinner" this Teusday with our guy neighbors. You can suggest that? Or something like it?
Just try the girls out :P
Might enjoy them more haha xx
i know the feeling.. i went to a women's college for my undergrad! just be active in the community and don't pressure yourself on finding guys. church is always a good way to meet new people.
Try getting involved in activities related to your interests -- not only can you meet people there, but you'll already have that in common with them! :)
I also think that going to coffee shops to do homework, as someone else mentioned, is a good idea. If you're interested then try something like swing dance also. It's a lot of fun and is becoming somewhat popular again, so there are quite a few guys at the dances.
Also try looking at the websites (or facebook pages) of other local colleges to find out what sort of events are going on at nearby colleges. Try going to some of those -- they'll often also welcome folks who don't go to that college, especially since you're still a student somewhere else.
Through friends, games, and of your school cheers for other schools, there.