Can there really be friendship after love? I broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago because he cheated on me then 3 months after that I met a guy and it was magical. We would spend hours on the phone and it felt amazing to have him there but what was more special was that we felt a strong bond and connection with each other which made us both realize that we had established a real friendship. I decided that I wanted to be with him and he was more than happy to hear that. We dated for a month but things were never the same. Throughout the short relationship I felt like he really wasn't what I wanted but I was afraid to lose him because I didn't want to lose that amazing friendship with him so I asked for a break. All we did after that was bicker and fight. Then today I told him that I wanted to be with him and he said he is still in love with me but feels that he can't be in a relationship right now. It hurt very much but I realized that he needs his time to sort things out in his life. I don't want to stop having sex with him and I know he doesn't as well and I feel like since I was never head over heels for him we can do that without bringing back strong emotions. Is it possible for us to stay good friends and still have sex? Keep in mind he is the only person I would want to have sex with because I know he loves and respects me as a friend.