I am now married to a guy that I've been with for over a year. A week before the wedding one of the groomsmen (his best friend) told me that he liked me and that he wished he was the man I was marrying. I didn't tell my now husband because it would've caused HUGE drama and that's not what I'm about. And I thought that after the wedding he would stop because I was officially taken. The problem is, the guy still comes on to me. A lot. My husband doesn't pick up on it and now that it has been going on for almost a month...I have kind of gotten used to liking the extra attention. What am I supposed to do? I know that I shouldn't have any feelings for this guy, but then I think...what if I would've met him first?! I know I would've dated him...but I didn't meet him first. I met my husband, whom I love. I'm in a pickle, and it is sour. What am I to do?!