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Question: So, I've recently met this guy through...

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Posted by Anonymous on June 1, 2011 at 1:36 PM

So, I've recently met this guy through work and a friend. He's cool and I like him, and I'm pretty sure he might like me too, BUT he has pretty bad reputation as a player. Thing is, he's nearly 30 now, and I'm wondering if he's changed/settled down/ready for a serious relationship. I don't want to get hurt. Any thoughts and advice??

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Oh, and it's been almost three years and we are engaged and have 3 months until our first child is born :) Anything can happen!
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My boyfriend had a little bit of a reputation before he met me, but I guess I was the exception because he changed for me! (I did not attempt to change him in anyway at all).

You never know unless you take that leap! Just be aware and keeping an eye out for the signs. Other than that, I'd say go for it!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 2, 2011 at 11:52 AM
Just remember reputations don't come from thin air. Have some fun with him, get to know him, as long as you don't jump into a serious relationship with him you'll probably be alright. Bad boys are definitely sexy, but they usually (not all of them) don't stick around or treat you right.
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For starters--be aware of their cellphone. Do they have it handy when you're around? Do they keep it on them at ALL times? Do you ever hear it go off?? If so, do they answer in front of you? Do they let it go to voicemail? OR Do they keep their phone on silent? If so, consider why this might be. Just a small bit of advice/tip. :) Hope it helps!
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