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Question: Im really confused. My boyfriend hasn't talked...

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Posted by Anonymous on September 4, 2009 at 7:30 AM

Im really confused. My boyfriend hasn't talked to me or even texted me in days. I don't know what to think or do. Help?

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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 20, 2010 at 9:02 PM
ask him what's up.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 28, 2009 at 12:57 AM
happned to me,
i just went over his house,
had a nice long talk
everything turned out fine in the end :)
i think a guy likes a girl he can talk about anything with no matter how awkward the situation is
u wont no unless u go and find out
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 15, 2009 at 9:49 AM
this dose work, my boyfriend stopped calling me for 2 days and we had planns on the 3rd day so i decided to go see him and see what was wrong, he was scared about how he felt for me so he almost broke up with me then he realized he couldnt live without me and things have been perfect sence
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 12, 2009 at 10:58 AM
I know guys who are diffientely into a girl, but don't do much, cuz they're playing "hard to get" or something. when i was dating, even though he lived in a different state, we barely talked. He just wasn't a talker. Maybe thats whats with your boyfriend. BUT if he's not normally like that, then that is a lil weird....
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  • Posted by Dini Meisel on October 11, 2009 at 11:04 AM
My friends boyfriend decided that they needed a break from the title. For the last two and a half months he has been basically torturing her saying that she needs to let him do his own thing and he will contact her when he feels like it. He could go days with out talking to her just to see if she had changed. She has gotten to the point where she decided that if in the next two weeks, he doesn't give them back the title she is done. Sometimes we make ourselves crazy for the people we love the only thing to really think about is: Are they worth the wait?
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 7, 2009 at 6:28 PM
don't rely on technology to make things work, it's about communication through movement. its not creepy to go to your boyfriends work place (no matter how long youve been dating) and say you stopped by for lunch or dinner or something, then talk to them about whats going on, why they havent talked. if they have no real excuse go with what you think is best. and dont stay with them because your the only one who cares, because in a relationship you need that in return to make it work.
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If he is your "boyfriend" I am guessing you guys communicate... Just call him.. find out
once and for all what is going on, if anything... at least you will know... then you can go
from there....
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Give te guy a chance. Its only been a few days. Ive known guys to text frequently then suddenly stop because 'they dont want to sem clingy'. Makes no sense to me neither.
There are loads of reasons he may not have contacted you. Do you live close to each other? If you do, try texting him to let him know your going to come over, then go and find out whats up.
My bf stopped texting me for over a week, and I was at home over an hours walk away. When I was finally able to see him it turned out he had lost his charger and his phone was dead, so he hadnt received any of my messages and couldnt get my number to call from the housephone.

Every one needs to stop being doom and gloom and give the poor sod a chance. I know atleast 80% of guys would be trying to take the easy way out, but dont steriotype!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 1, 2009 at 3:17 PM
ok i'll take your point... BUT, he can borrow a phone, walk to your house, take a bus/subway...... i'm telling you ... if a guy is really into you, HE WILL FIND A WAY TO CALL, CONTACT, SEE YOU
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 1, 2009 at 10:19 AM
Sweetie, it is time to move on. I hate to say this, but guys who do this are arrogant wads. they don't want attachment. you are a thing to them, not a person. I have dated one of these "things"once, and let me tell you, they give men in general a bad name. the "thing" I dated "the thing"way back when. He promised me that he loved me, he wanted to be with me forever, blah blah blah the good news is, is the fact that he is an absolute liar and fake. the reason why this is good news is the fact you aren't leaving your dream man, and you are still good enough for your dream man! It is just that wads like this dude pale in comparison. they are phonies, fakes, smoke and mirrors. just out for a good time. They are untrainable, and thorns on the rose.
It is time to hold your head high, and move on. Say goodbye to rubbish, darling! As a matter of fact, all of us women need to take a vow to say goodbye to rubbish. They truly do not deserve us! and, you know what? I wouldn't even hesitate to start dating again, no matter what your feelings, because it really is the best medicine for a broken heart.
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