Question: This is probably commonly asked, but what...

Well i was in this boat and now i regret saying anything. Or maybe i regret not saying something sooner. It's hard to go from best friends for a really long time to bf and gf. After i told him i liked him he stayed away for a long time and after that it was never the same.

So if its worth the risk tell him

hmmm.. well I did tell this guy ok .. earlier in the year in January that I had deeper feelings for him than friendship.. However.. he was seeing someone at the time.. and he said he loved the connection we had that wouldn't ever burn out like some dumbass romance.. then he said but you're wonderful person and there's nothing wrong with dumbass romances.. So I said ok.. it's all good. We stayed friends. This is online friendship though we've spoken on skype etc.

then this sept.. seems he's broken up with this other woman.. and he wanted to talk to me on skype (i'd not been going on as much for months ok).. and we did and it was brilliant. We were smiling goofy smiles and all of that.. and since then we've talked at least once a week on skype. Last time was thursday.. and well.. I really really like him and I do have deeper feelings for him. Jeez.. they never went away ok..

Now what do I do.?? tell him again.. I already told him once..

There's other women flirting on his page with him ..and it seems he's talking to them too. He did say back in January he doesn't want to do long distance relationships - we were talking about this ex of his who lives hour and a half away... But he did carry on seeing her till about July i think..

Jeez I'm clueless on this what to do.. and to complicate things.. my ex from last year is back in touch over last week.. twice.. on skype .. don't know what he wants yet.. I do still have feelings for him.. but my feelings for my friend .. well .. I really realy care and like him a lot.. in fact I think i'm falling in love with him more than earlier in the year. What should I do?

you should tell him.
me and my boyfriend have known each other for 10 years .. in the last three we had become great friends ... and then when i told him that i liked him he told me he liked me as well. we've been dating for 6 months next week :D
you will regret it if you dont.

tell him, because no matter the outcome, at least you'll know.
i did and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.

hey sweety take my advice
tell him
if he is actually ur bst frnd thn he wud get it
n hey evn if he dsnt like u in tat maner its ook u cn b frnds
n if he is nt cool abt it
gal he is a silly guy who isnt worth it
n y r u thinking negative
think of all d gr8 time u ppl will share once u strt going arround...
go 4 it gal
coz if evn he has feelings 4 u
he cannot wait 4 ever 4 u

I've been in the same situation (well, a few months ago). I liked my best friend but I was really nervous to tell him that I like him. At that moment, I also felt that he likes me back. The only problem was I didn't want to take the risk of sacrificing our friendship over a relationship that still seems vague to us. Unfortunately before I was about to tell him that I just want to be friends instead, he dumped me like a hot potato (dissing and snobbing me all the time) and now we're totally avoiding each other. Well, that's life! =(

What if they like someone else? Do you still take the risk? I mean Could there be a possibility they like you too and you just need to push them in the right direction? Because thats the situation I'm in. I met this guy, fell for him and as I was about to tell him I liked him he told me he liked someone else and we've become best friends over it... x

I would tell him.
I have a best friend who i am/was really close with and he was there for me the whole time my ex [almost 3 years] were going through hard times and such. Even when we went to his cottage, there was like 8 of us my ex and i ended up splitting up and he was there for me.. He even took me for a tampon run [fml!].
So i've fallen for one of my best friends and whats even worse was on his birthday we hooked up, and ive never told him that i like him because im afraid to do so.. and hes now gone to college and i don't want to tell him or ruin his fun.
But don't be afraid, you should tell him because you never know what could happen.

"Dont wait, make it known for sure. Boys can be stupid and not know when to make the first move." - My boyfriend

You have two options.
Tell him, and you might get lucky,
Or dont tell him, and be depressed and wonder what could have been for the rest of your life.

All you gotta do is say, yeah.. so i kinda like you. But if you just wanna be friends i wont let that get in the way of anything.
BUT
You have to mean that. Because if he does only want to be 'just friends' and you end up getting all possessive of him, he may come to hate you.

my 13 yr old cuz seems to have this problem all the time. and instead of EVER telling, she cries and whines about it. So i really have no sympathy for ppl who are like that (unless theres a good reason for it).