Question: I'm not exactly new to sex or...

It doesnt matter at what point in the relationship you have sex. With my ex boyfriend (we were together 2 years) and my current boyfriend (3 months already) I slept with both of them on the first date... Both times I intended to wait to find out if they were really keen on me but we got drunk together and things just... happened. Luckily I was friends with both of them before we went on a date so I knew how they felt about me. However, I wouldn't recommend diving in for it on the first date, because although it worked out for me, it might not work for everyone. Just wait until you feel that it's right, both of you want to do it and you trust him Px

Wait until you are married. Then you can enjoy it. Because what if you have sex with him and then break up? You have given away the most precious thing a woman can give.

I think it all depends on how you feel about the situation. A lot of girls say wait to see if he will stay or if you have sex to soon he might leave ya after he gets what he wants. I slept with my man the first night I met him. Now we are going to be married soon and he isn't going anywhere. Not all guys are bad and not all girls are good. Some girls will sleep with a guy and then just leave them. So ya. If you really want to have sex with him then just do it already!!!

I would suggest waiting a three month period.
It's enough to get you out of the 'honeymoon' stage, and if you are still together then go for it. It will also be that much better than if you did it within the first month.
If you do the deed too soon he might think that you're that open and able with everyone, and it loses potential respect he could have held for you to have him stick around.

if sleeping with a guy is what ur thinking about and the time rerquired to do so, u should just cut the chase and do him already.

personally, i wouldn't say there's a specific time as long as it's right with both of you. I used to be one of those girls to randomly hook up with a different guy every night or so, and I understand why now you'd want to wait to see this grow into something before rushing to bed. You give up something about yourself every time you have sex, and whether you feel like you've gotten some fulfillment back from it really determines if it's the right person. If you already feel fulfilled by him and are just missing the deeper connection of sex, then go ahead. If you feel like you need the sex, be it for primitive desire or to 'help out' your relationship, then you probably should wait a while.

I think people over-analyse this question way too much. You will find out the guys intentions when he either tells you them or acts on them, and not before. It can be disappointing sometimes but if we all knew who we would have relationships with and who wouldn't really work out, life would be hideously boring. I've had my fair share of men who have given me one impression and then acted totally differently, i've been cheated on, messed around and disappointed as much as anyone, but I believe that these things happen for a reason and i know that my experiences have made me who i am today - someone i am very proud to be. You find it when you find it, that's all i can say.

There's no time table when it comes to this. I slept with someone the first night we met (21st birthday, enough said) and we wound up being together for 6 months after that. I've also been "dismissed" as I call it, after 3 weeks of 3rd basing without giving it up, and this was someone I had known for roughly 5 months. It depends on how serious you are with this guy. And never forget that you're the one in control here.

Personally I don't think that we should set a be-all-and-end-all time frame before sleeping with a guy.
Every guy is different, and you can become very close to some people very quickly and easily. In my current relationship I slept with my boyfriend on 5 days after officially going out, and I was the one who instigated it. I can confidently there have been no repercussions and he treats me with the utmost respect. In fact we now have the greatest relationship I have ever been in, and we freely talk about everything. He has met my family and vice versa, and his grandparents invited me to their 60th anniversary.
I say do what feels right to you, have confidence in yourself, your sensuality, and most importantly your intelligence.

Wow! theres been a huge response to my question thanks everyone :) it's been brilliant to see everyone's opinion and you've given me a lot to think about. Thankou!