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Posted by Anonymous on November 4, 2009 at 11:18 AM

How do I keep this guy interested? Lately my guard has been up very high becuase of all the time I've been hurt. I have been talking to this guy who is in the Marines for a couple weeks now. I am going to be a Marine too in about 3 months. He is so down to Earth and he's sweet to me, but sometimes I feel like he isn't as interested in me as I am in him. He still talks to me everyday but it seems like we run out of things to talk about. We are going to write each other while I am in bootcamp and I am just hoping he will stay interested while I'm gone. We will be stationed together after I get out. I know his job keeps him busy, but how can I keep him wanting more? I don't want to get hurt AGAIN!

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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 27, 2009 at 12:39 AM
Well, you said it, your guard is up. I don't think that makes for great communication. The factthat you will be writing him may help though. good luck.
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nice song!!!! and ya dont over think it cuz if it is suppose to happen it will if not then u dnt have to waste ur time on him.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 4, 2009 at 3:12 PM
I agree with Jennifer... Don't over think it. If he is into you, he will try to keep the contact and when a guy is into you, he will have five minutes or more than that, even if he is "super busy".
Just love yourself, heal your wounds, be grateful , think about the good things in your life, work/study... try to be a better person every day... that's what I do, and it works for me...
I know I am not ready for a relationship right now and I am trying my best to feel as comfortable with myself as I can. I hope this helps you... xoxo :)
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Jennifer, that may be the best song I've ever heard...... Lol.
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This is easier said then done- Don't think about it. Think about how you are going to live your life, and all of the things you are accomplishing on your own. (Read the book, even watch the movie he is just not that into you).... You will never be happy if you are always wondering where he is at in his life and how that equates to you. DON'T DO IT GIRL! I wasted 3 yrs of my life sweating a man, worst 3 yrs of my life! Listen to this song and hear what she is saying; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UYEZnhnVCg some swearing so if that offends you don't listen- but give it a try, this song is my mantra!
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