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Posted by Anonymous on September 15, 2009 at 4:38 PM

I'm going to university in a few days, but there is a boy I have been spending the summer with. We're good friends, but the truth is, I love him very much. I'm concerned about whether I should tell him before I leave? Would it make things harder, or would it be best to let him know how I feel? I don't want to make things awkward for us, as I want to keep in contact with him and see him again when I come home the next summer..

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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 23, 2009 at 3:32 PM
Let him know. You will regrt not telling him so much in the future. But keep this in mind too, do you really love him and would you live your whole life with him?
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  • Posted by Grace Toft on September 17, 2009 at 10:44 AM
If you dont tell him... you will only regret it and wonder your whole life if it could have turned into something. go ahead girly. you only live once.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 16, 2009 at 8:51 AM
See how it goes while you're in school...sometimes knowing you're going to be leaving can make you think you're having feelings for someone. it's actually (in my experience) just a kind of early 'homesick'-ness!!!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 16, 2009 at 5:56 AM
If your leaving, don't complicate things by making a snap love statement, just realise some times timing is everything, and it looks like you missed yours, move on.
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  • Posted by Sam Tan on September 16, 2009 at 1:43 AM
i think you should tell him. but remember its not the end of the world if he doesnt like u back. if he cherishes ur friendship, you guys can stay as friends.
i have crushed on a guy too for a long time, and i think he knows but nothing has ever come from that, we are now only best buds.
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  • Posted by Kim B. on September 15, 2009 at 9:59 PM
You COULD tell him how you feel, but I mean, if you feel like you're legitimately crushing/loving this guy, I don't see why you shouldn't say anything. But if you're the type that feels that you might wanna "scope around" during university, I feel as if maybe you should just "keep the ball rolling", get EVEN closer as the year goes on, have a hookup or two at university (1- if you feel like it, 2-if you wanna explore) and then, the next time you see him, it'll be much easier to say, because you've known him for much longer. :)
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 15, 2009 at 7:27 PM
I agree with Efie. TELL THE GUY HOW U FEEL. If he doesn't feel the same then it's his loss.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 15, 2009 at 5:10 PM
yes defo let him no i fell in love and didnt say anything now im not happy at all noone will ever match up to him !!!
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LIFE IS TOO SHORT HONEY...LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL ABOUT HIM AND THINK POSITIVE!!! GOOD LUCK AND PLS LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENED!!!
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