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I bet mom is very proud of you, oh misser of points.

spell FFS properly then if you dont like it being spelt wrong

amen to that

every mother ive dealt with in relationships from my first boyfriend and beyond had been exactly the way you described. only son, first child, only child, i seemed to attract them, and every one of their mothers hated me for absolutely no reason at all. I told myself the first guy i meet that his mother actually likes me is the one I will marry (that turned out to be true but not for that reason). So i know where you are coming from.
I say give him a chance. but dont dive in head first, be cautious and watch for warning signs. Have an open relationship and gently, slowly, sever the umbilical cord. as for him being a first timer....don't worry, they catch on quickly, and take advantage of the fact that you have the chance to train someone properly :) theres not enough of those out there. Its easier to train than retrain and break bad habits am i right lol

Wow, sounds familiar to me, VERY familiar to me, like its almost exactly what I have, minus the age (I'm older than my guy).
I think you are being a little unfair, because you've sort of answered why he's never been in a relationship: he has a needy Mom.
My fiancé was a virgin when we started dating almost 3 years ago. His Mom (and his Dad really) are both VERY needy; like at least once a day one of them would call and demand he do something for them because they were literally too lazy to do it themselves. Its lessened greatly since we got engaged.
I say you're being unfair because like you said, he has a needy Mom, which probably means he has never really had the chance to have a real relationship; she probably pulled the same lines my future mother-in-law pulled (and tried to pull with him and me) by saying 'you've changed' whenever he tried dating someone.
Even if it isn't a forever match, sometimes being that girl who helps him be himself without a nagging mother on his back, will do wonders for a guy. Who knows, he might even be your 'one', I know mine is.

I think you should, it's not fair to judge someone based on abstinence, no matter the reason. It's not like it's permanent either, give it a try, you can always end it.

I- I love you now.

Also, I'm dyslexic too and I HATE EVERYONE that uses it as an excuse not to spell words right. It's called "proof-reading". FFS.

Her biggest issue is his mother... That's the cause dear, she isn't being shallow. :]

I am very sorry. I hope you find happiness, with him or someone else! I hope if you really like him, maybe you can get him away from her, enough so he can have his own life! Both of you, that is. Have a happy new year!

They weren't trying to be mean. The 'U' was just an example to point out that you abbreviate a lot and it has nothing to do with your ability to spell.

:)