Question: Would you ever have sex with an...

i agree 100% im actually going through this right now. and i was the one who got hurt, i was very attached to him, and sex for me was instant closure. we both have no romantic feelings towards each other, but like she said, we all have needs!

No, but that's mainly because I want horrible things to happen to my ex

I do all the time. lol. He's a pain, but I love him and believe someday we're meant to be together. It's better than sleeping around... I dunno. I don't mind it. But you both have to be mature and ready for the other to be with other people.

I've done it before. It was one of those things where we dated for a bit, but didn't have sex, broke up, time went on, we remained friends, although I still always had a thing for him (he was my first real boyfriend. What can I say? Lol). And then one drunken night, we had sex. It ended up being no big deal. Neither of us felt any strings attached, and if anything, it HELPED me move on, although all his friends were saying he should go for it. LOL. We're still friends, I have my own boyfriend, while he has his own girlfriend. We don't get that awkward feeling or anything like that when we hang out. So I guess it just helped us realize we were better off as friends, so that's what we are. But it's different for everyone, so I guess just make sure you keep your emotions in check, and don't get you're hopes up too high. I think it's one of the worst feelings to get them crushed, personally. =/ Just be safe about it. :)

I agree with them. You broke up for a reason and when your in the middle you'll remember that reason.

If you're mature enough to realize that it's just sex and not getting back together as a couple, then go for it.
I slept with a guy for 3-4 months that, although it was never officially a relationship, it may as well been. We both knew what we were going into once it started, and it never got too emotional.

Do what you think you can handle; if you can't handle just sex, then don't do it(literally).

no, find someone that deserves you.

NO WAY! ive been there few years ago and done it and seriously it will mess u up n f**k ur mind up for a very long time please dont go there x

I agree with a lot of things on here - if it's agreed and you acknowledge in youself that it's only sex, nothing else, then it's fine.
Also, what people have been saying about the comfort and knowlege between the two of you, it's true.
i LOVE having sex with my ex. Neither of us are involved with anyone else, we both know that it's over and that we're a train wreck as a couple, and we know we have awesome sex with each other hahaha!
Although i think we have a very unique relationship, and i'm sure it's not a good idea.
I have a friend who is still sleeping with her ex - she wants him back and there's constant hints that he does too and then he goes silent and ignoring her again... it's breaking her heart.

So it all depends on the situation and the individuals involved.
There's just two real life examples :)

me and my bf broke up mutually, hes leaving for the army,
i love him still so i did hav sex with him a few times
but like someone above said,
think of it as more of a casual thing and u dnt get hurt,
and im still on the look out for other guys, he aint gonna stop me and i dnt care wat he thinks :)
and im as happy as can be :)