Question: Okay so, basically the problem is that...
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Posted by Anonymous on December 16, 2009 at 12:16 PM
Okay so, basically the problem is that my boyfriend never compliments me. Is this normal? My friends have said that it's a bit out of order, for instance even when I dress up to go out, all he says is "Have a nice time." He says he doesn't do it because I can't accept compliments so he doesn't bother trying, but it's making me feel even more ugly. What should I do?
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I do usually reply with 'aw, shut up,' but not in a mean way. Just, learn to accept the compliments. If he still doesn't up the compliments, then start complimenting him more. He'll probably return the favor.
But all in all, if he's with you, he probably thinks you're beautiful anyway. Don't count on your significant other to give you self-esteem. That's not the reason to be in a relationship; it's just a perk. And if you don't feel good about yourself to begin with, it's not going to be a factor at all.
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If you've talked to him about it and he still doesn't understand, but you really love him, then you'll just have to accept him for who he is. Perhaps he finds it hard to compliment people (especially since he says you don't take them well). You can't chance people so don't try.
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